How to open in bars

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So I haven’t really bar gamed in a while, but was invited to go with a friend of mine to see some of his fellow musicians perform at a bar in Miami. I’ve done so much direct daygame, but I know doing the, hey I know this is random but, thing won’t really work in a bar?

My plan is just to be super present and have a good time. But if a girl catches my eye, how should I approach? I’m thinking of just looking at her until we lock eyes and just wait for an AI approach invitation, a smile or something, then just go and introduce myself.

Any advice?

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The Inevitable Death of Day Game (& what this means for you)

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**Full Video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM)

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TL;DW:

Malls have just hit an all time low vacancy of 10%. The lowest in the decade, many are closing left and right.

As for night game? In the UK alone, 25% of night clubs have shut down.

While this is due partly to the new generation not being interested in these venues, online ordering and online dating play a huge role in this.

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In the US alone 50 million Americans have used online dating.

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**Bad news:**

The bad news is that social interactions will be more and more sporadic. The locations for these interactions are going to become less and less. So you’re going to have LESS chances of meeting and attracting women.

**More bad news:**

Girls are going to become less social, and more awkward. They will also become colder towards you, because of all the validation they receive online at a safe distance, they won’t really NEED your face to face ‘scary’ interaction.

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**Good news:**

The good news is that for the next 5 or so years, you will still be fine, but it definitely means that now more than ever? You need to take action to fix up your social skills.

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**Even better news:**

Because of this, most men will be PETRIFIED to be social, and they will have NO CLUE what to do when face to face with an attractive girl. So again, now more than ever is the time to take action.

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**Solution in 4 Steps:**

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The first step is commit to removing your fear of social judgement. Force yourself outside of your comfort zone, and take control of your approach anxiety once and for all.

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**2.)**

Commit to improving your social skills. Now the average Joe is not going to be able to just walk up and talk to a girl and know what to say, you need to put yourself in social situations on a continuous basis so that you can improve your social skills.

This means you REFUSE to spend the weekend at home alone again, you refuse to just sit in front of the TV and let life pass you by, and you BUILD an AWESOME social circle filled with gorgeous women.

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**3.)**

Only when you’ve REALLY built up steps 1 & 2 should you even consider moving to The 3rd step. Make a commitment that you will learn how to master online dating and social media so that with only a little bit of effort, you reap all the rewards that most of the guys out there are going to be completely missing. half ass efforts will yield half ass results

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**4.)**

Get a mentor.

A few years ago I thought I could tackle business alone, the sad part was, every time I’d try something, the market evolved faster than me, so I was scrambling to learn the next big thing.

In my health and fitness I thought I could figure it out, and even though I had a good idea of what to do, I didn’t know the exact measurements of foods to eat, the weights to lift, and the repetitions to do.

There’s no shame in saying I’m not an expert at this, I need someone who’s figured it out to help me.

In fact, there’s more shame in trying to figure it out alone and wasting years of your life not getting the results, when you could be getting results in just a few weeks.

I don’t care if you go and get someone else as a coach. But get yourself a coach.

(Even if it’s your buddy James who’s crushing it.)

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**Full Video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM)

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What to do when your gf wants to pick up guys at parties.

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Well, she asks me for it but i don’t think i want her to do that.
Edit
We are together 1 year.
And actually it was near a break up week ago.

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Any Curious Guys Out There (Los Angeles)

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I’m looking for an older guy to have some fun with. Specifically someone that is 30 or older. Haven’t had any luck on here, so I’m going to keep trying until I find a chill, nice guy, who wants to have some fun. Maybe we can “hang out” more than once …

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Doing drugs in the club

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Hey All !

In the clubs i go to there are drug dealers !

Will me doing drugs help get women in the club as I heard it gives you swag

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Date told me my kiss was “forced/awkward”

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So I went on a date last night from a girl I met in bumble and it went pretty well and right before she went on her lyft, i made a move to kiss her and she repricocated, but then she texted me later saying it felt forced/awkward. I’ve been thinking about this wondering what I did wrong

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How to approach women like an Alpha

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How to approach women like an Alpha

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Approaching in cafeteria

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Hey guys,so I’m here in my college cafeteria and I see this extremely cute girl doing her work so I go and sit beside her. Although I haven’t talked to her yet (she seems engrossed in her work) I gave her all physical cues i.e turning my body towards her , I asked for a pen which she declined in the beginning saying ” I only have 1″ then I said “just for 2 Minutes ,on which she agreed” and then proceeds to take out atleast 2 more pens from her bag to continue doing her work, as well as leaning away from me. Is this a red flag? Should I next her , or try to make conversation when I get the opportunity.

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