So im out of town hanging with my buddy in Mississippi. Im from Pennsylvania and yet I cant seem to talk to the cute girls. I can talk to random people. But good looking girls I just clam up and can even approach. Can anyone help me with this. New Orleans tomorrow I need to get some balls.
I’m 6’5 and I have ridiculously large shoulders, used to be fat but I’ve lost a fuckton of weight. A lot of my shorter male friends envy my physical appearance but I’m not successful with women. What would you do if you were tall?
ELI5 Hey ya’ll. Wanted to get some advice on dancing with women at clubs. So I get the whole dancing by myself thing… But when they start grinding on me I try to follow but then I end up not being able to and think I’m doing a bad job. Am I overthinking it? If we stand there and dance I’m good but once the grinding starts it takes me much alcohol to feel comfortable with it. Advice?
As a frequent lurker on this page, I thought I’d finally make my first post about something that happened these past two night that may be of interest.
Two days ago after getting pretty drunk at a club, me and friends went to a nearby diner. Lord behold, one of the thicccest women I’ve ever laid eyes on was working here. I’ve gotta talk to her.
So I approach and (still drunk) asked her when she was working next so she could be my waitress. She said tomorrow. I said ‘done’ and held her hand. She wasn’t backing away.
So, now about last night.
So I return to the diner (just me) and this chick immediately recognizes me. After careful evaluation, she was so much thiccccer and prettier than I remembered lol but I went in and started talking to her. We had awkward exchanges at times because she didn’t get my jokes. I later found out she wasn’t from the US but she’s from Europe (she had an amazing accent – I think I hit the jackpot) and at one point I found myself holding and squeezing her hand – she squeezed right back). So at the end of my stay, I’m paying for my tab and all of a sudden I started getting anxiety to close. Like what in the actual fuck. I did all the hard work and I couldn’t get the words to come out of my mouth at the end.
I know this is a pretty strong candidate for fuckup of the month, but I think if I go back, I may still have a shot? Lemme hear some thoughts.
If valuable feedback is provided, I’ll share an update next weekend.
I’ve been talking to a girl on Snapchat this past month, the attraction seemed to be fairly mutual for about 2 weeks and it suddenly dropped off once I showed my cards (I said I thought she looked cute).
She wouldn’t open my messages for 23 hours and it was only until I waited 24+ hours and ended our streak that I started to get back on track and the text time was more reasonable.
Valentine’s day comes and with no provocation she opens my message I sent at night and doesn’t reply to it. I figured “she isn’t interested, I’m just not going to push anymore and forget about it.” Around 6 days later she responds to my story with just a simple “LOL” with something she found funny. I felt like that wasn’t a very good conversation starter so I just replied something generic and when she replied I left her on read (it was another short one word response).
That was yesterday and today I finally just sent “we should hang out when I come to X college”. (This had been a trip I had been planning for some time, as I go to a different University from her, and was planning on visiting said University because I’m planning on transferring there later, and her and our mutual friends go there as well and I wanted to see all of them again.) She replies around 20-30 minutes later “yes! I’m sure ‘X mutual friend group will get together at some point”
This is clearly a deflection, I know she’s not that dumb. What I need to know is what to reply, do I clarify more by firmly but respectfully stating “I was talking about just us”? Or should I just not answer her at all? It isn’t a long shot at all that our mutual friends would get together when I come down, but this just feels like a friend zoning situation.
For some more background info: We only recently started talking to each other, we had known each other for a while but rarely talked to each other and she rarely hung out with my friend group. Her boyfriend and her broke up around 3 months ago. I decided to pursue her because I felt some pretty strong attraction the last time we hung out together in person.
I’m meeting an ecologist woman for a first date tomorrow. Asked her if she wanted to go to an aquarium. So we’re doing that. I haven’t met her in person yet, don’t even know what her voice sounds like, just met online. I have the ability to setup petting some of the animals and stuff (i have connections). would this be too much for a first meetup? I just don’t want to seem like im bribing her. I’m guessing your answers will be go for it and im overthinking it but could just use some validation. Thanks.