So im out of town hanging with my buddy in Mississippi. Im from Pennsylvania and yet I cant seem to talk to the cute girls. I can talk to random people. But good looking girls I just clam up and can even approach. Can anyone help me with this. New Orleans tomorrow I need to get some balls.
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Today I M21 made my first in person approach today. I’ve been with a few women in my life but it always started as talking over over social media or dating apps. Other than that I’ve always been to nervous around women to make a move and lately I’ve been trying to he more confident with it.
Well lo and behold, a new girl started at the resturaunt by my work. The last few times I’ve been there, we always end up in conversation. Now I’m not talking about small talk, I’m talking about an actual in depth conversation. She seems like an over all good person and has a great plan in life.
So today I finally gathered the courage to ask her to hang out. With a brief silence, I was standing there with my heart racing and face beat red. She asked me how old I was and told her. She said is 26 and I’m pretty young. I’m thinking oh boy here we go. But instead she asks me if I’m into yu-gi-oh. I’ve never played nor had the desire to play as it’s not my thing. I told her I’ve never played and she asked me to go to a weekly game night to play and she would teach me to dual. I agreed and we spoke more about it and we exchanged the usual goodbye have a nice day and she told me to drive safe.
I’m open to try new things and in the process maybe broaden my social circle. I feel like learning the game may tell us alot about each other. How we teach and learn, consideration, and more. All in all I’m psyched that I pushed my boundary and it went considerably well. I’m excited to learn more about her and hopefully everything moves forward.
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So i have made 2 other posts regarding the same girl, and honestly i was just thinking too much, i was isolated in my home and away from any interaction (including the opposite sex) for nearly a year due to hospitalization and death of a pet, and made me realise that girls are normally confusing asf but it is fine in the end.
So she and i are on a good pace of things, no red flags from either sides and her friends love me, i was thinking of giving her a gift, a small gift, i alrdy got the gift, its not expensive as well, since she likes BTS so much, ir is something related, but i have no idea how do i go about giving her the gift cuz of my stupid anxiety and nervousness towards females, and my fk up-ness when im shy, should i just clip it on her bag and let her notice (i sit beside her), be like, i got something for you and give it to her? Idk man whats the best way to go for this.
Also gna ask her out soon, and if it doesnt work out well, harder to do then say, but needa move on.
All help appreciated.
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