Here’s my five tips for the men starting out who don’t want to go directly into cold approaches for the fear of being a creep. I’m not saying cold approaches themselves are creepy, but when first starting off someone can easily make them that way. This is more like a warm approach.

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I know, I know, some of you might say who cares how people perceive you and it’s all numbers. Well my friend, a lot of us do care. Nobody wants to get thrown out of bars or clowned on in front of a crowd. Sometimes dudes starting out don’t know how to cold approach at appropriate times, or know how to act / take rejection so they end up being a creep in that moment. Well here’s my tips I call it the warm approach, because these are some typical signs someone’s into you; it gives you a better chance she actually wants you to talk to her.

# Wait for eye contact.

Seriously, this is a big one. I don’t mean a one off glance either. If you see someone stare at you multiple times a night or one of your trust worthy buddies says she stares when you’re not looking, chances are she probably digs you.

# Smile and smile back.

If you do happen to lock eyes, give a smile or wait for a smile. If you guys both smile harder or laugh from across the room you’re golden. When you smile at someone and they look look disgusted, chances are you saved yourself from walking up to someone who really didn’t want to talk to you.

# “THAT’S SO FUNNY!” The non joke humor tip.

You know what I’m talking about. The vibe is right you guys are in the same group, or she’s next to your group and laughs at a really stupid joke. Yeah if you’ve been acting smooth all night, and she ends up laughing at things you didn’t even mean to be funny. Huge green flag she’s probably into you.

# Group assignments or engagements.

Whether it be at school, playing a game at the bar, or anything else that requires a group. If she always wants to be in your group, you’re doing good and she probably digs you. Even at a first met situation if she’s super eager to play pool with you or darts, you are 90% in solid my friend.

# Last but not least… The blatant friend.

Sometimes girls are just flat-out shy about things, and one of her bold friends will seriously straight up tell you she’s diggin you. Maybe you’re a damn male model or maybe you’ve been acting super suave and she’s feeling your vibe. Whatever it is, if her friend straight up tells you… go for it! I’ve seen too many dudes think a chicks friend is just lying or messing around.

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[field report] my 1st five cold approaches! Can you help me review them?

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After reading only Tom Torero’s Beginner Guide To Daygame (I didn’t watch his YT movie) I deciced to try these things for myself. This is going to be a long post. But that’s because I want you to help me, so I can do better next time 😉 Enjoy!

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First approach happened near my campus. I noticed a girl with curly hair, with which I was writing my language exam. I saw her at the other side of the street, so I waited for her to go through pedestrain crossing. She didn’t notice me, walked past me and then I had a moment of anxiety, but I encouraged myself. Followed her a bit and then stopped her by wheeling in front of her (something what Tom Torero does). I did it nicely, because she stopped and I didn’t notice any sign of stress or fear. She took of headphones and I opened by saying:

“Hi, I know you from that language exam we were writing on friday week ago. That time you were talking with a friend, so when I saw you today I wanted to come and talk with you”

Then I said, that with those curly hair she could be a nice spanish girl, and it made her laugh. Later she told that she is in hurry and then I made a mistake, because I was occupied with what I will say next: she just asked “Facebook?”. I presumed she was asking, if I stalked her on FB or something, but it could be just an asking for just my facebook, so we could talk later. Well, I ignored it and told, that I thought she is an ukrainian girl, since in that language she was speaking with some friend before. She said, that she’s not ukrainian, but polish, and unfortunately I freezed out a bit. Instead of saying something like “wow, so how many languages do you speak well” or such I just said “polish? Aaa..” hahaha. She said, she really has to go, so I said bye and that’s the end 😛 

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2nd approach was at the shopping mall. Before it I made a quick warm-up, I asked some guy about directions and well, he was going in that direciton, so he walked me to the place I asked about and we had a convo. Then I joked a bit with two girls, who were giving away some brochures. I entered a mall and noticed a young looking girl in pink sweater, doing her homework. I looked at her, came up with an idea, what to say to her, and hesitated for like 2 minutes, well, because she looked “busy”. I quickly reminded myself feelings that I feel, when I miss the opportunity and when I come up and break my anxieties. That gave me a boost, so I came to her, and opened:

“Hi, I know it’s unusual to be chatted up by a stranger, but I thought you look sweet, so I came to you to talk a little”

She just smirked, said “okay”, so I sat by her and told about that sweater; that because of its pink colour I guess she’s kinda sensitive and such, because today some girls like to wear adidas trousers to seem tough (well, wtf, now, when I’m reading this, it sounds dumb haha). Of course I didn’t say it that smooth :d She didn’t make any statement, and rather focused on her homewok. So, I asked, if it’s a language course, she replied, that she’s learning english. I followed by saying, that I’d choose a different language, if I was in her place, since I got so fed up with it, that’s why I’ve picked spanish and I felt, that this reply was kinda bad. Well, still she didn’t give any attention, so I decides to give it a last question and then, when nothing changed, after few seconds I said it was nice to try talking to her and I just said goodbye.

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Waking Up Every Week With Fire In Yourself.. | Monday Motivation Entry 01

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# Unleashed Monday Motivation 01:

>As I type this, I’m at the desk at my job wrapping up a 12-hour shift enjoying some tea and bumping some type beats. On this last hour before I go home, I always feel pretty introspective.

After a long night, I sit at this desk and ponder ideas, motivation, and new ways to tackle what I want to do this week.

I’m not actually here to improve with women but instead teach & inspire others. *But I haven’t uploaded a video in 5 days,* the longest amount of time and I’m a bit anxious to get back in and and start the channel off with a fire start this week.

There are often times when I’m really greatful for this time. Because its a moment so early in the morning, after a night of filling my head with audio content. It let’s me reflect on my strategy for the week, and I think it’s important for all of us to have some kind of moment of time, or sanctuary/ritualistic habit of a place that we can reset our thoughts and cleanse.

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Sometimes I get simultaneously excited and overwelmed at the prospect of speaking my truth on camera, editing, artwork, website, creating new content & innovative ideas, maintaining technical performance on the website. Then you throw in all the real life stuff like family/finances/diet/gym/improvement/responsibilities.

*And that’s why I value this time so much.*

>Regardless of whatever you’re doing in life, whatever stage or journey we’re all in. Truthfully, there will always be parallels in the mental ups and downs, ebbs and flows of everything and how we tackle this adventure called life.

Sometimes you feel this sense of hunger for the things you desire and wish to create & manifest for yourself, reality and the reality of your loved ones. It brings on a sense of fire and urgency, yet anxiety and an inner yearning..

At other times you count your blessings for all of the great loved ones you have in your life and your health, well-being and even just this current point in time.

>Regardless of whatever you’re doing, even if you’re at home beating off. There’s going to be a point in time in the future where you look back at this moment and time and realize just how golden and precious it was. Just how awesome it was.

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**I just wanted to take this time to unleash some introspective and motivating thoughts for others on this early morning.**

Ultimately it all starts at this moment in time, at this mental starting point. *Let’s get it.*

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Occult Seduction Techniques

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I was wondering if I could use any dark/black/left hand path magick or occult rituals/ceremonies to help me seduce women. Please guide me to any sources. Thank you.

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Do not know what to do

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I was at the house party this weekend, and I was with my crush all weekend we had good talks and everything was great, we had sex last night, but the day after was really weird, she texted me when she was home “sorry”, I am really confused about what to do next, what should I write her, how should I act.

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The bots are getting more interactive

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The bots are getting more interactive

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And this is why i dont bother with this site anymore

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And this is why i dont bother with this site anymore

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