[FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.

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This is just a little post to share a few things I’ve learned in the last month.

Girl 1) tinder date. The mindset I had going into it was “get the sex”. I just wanted the validation. And while she was nice and fun and, to be frank, obviously a bit slutty, it took me until we were both butt naked at her place to realise I was just not attracted to her. She looked alright with clothes on, and had a nice smile and she was kinda forward which turned me on, but once we got down to business, I couldn’t get it up. She was just not even slightly my type. Did the whole “it’s not you it’s me” routine, did my best to get her off (she can only get off with toys, tut tut) and left.

Lesson: not worth lowering your standards for sex. You think it’ll give you a confidence boost, but it might just do the opposite.

Girl 2) Someone I met at a bar. I found her ID then recognised her from it and gave it to her. Easy open, and I’m happy to say I didn’t waste it. Got the number. Took it “slow” for the first time (I have a streak of fucking on the day I’ve met a girl) (out of necessity, she had work in the morning) so I managed to set up a good third date with perfect logistics. Gotta say, the build up to that date, where we both knew what was gonna happen after, was fucking exciting. Didn’t think of anything else sexually for the whole week. We had a good date, good sex in a hotel room and… I’ve pretty much lost all interest in her. I’m not sure if I’m just an asshole or not, but I barely brought myself to text her a few days after. I guess it’s a case of being blinded by my attraction for her that I didn’t realise how boring I found her company. In the following week, I’ve found that getting a satisfying ONS has not done anything to improve my mood or better me as a person. Not that I consciously thought it would.

Lesson: sex won’t solve your problems, and if you feel like it will when going in, you’ll just feel shit afterwards. Also learned once again that’s it’s fucking hard to say no to “you don’t need a condom I’m on the pill”. Sigh.

The big positive from this experience is that I seem to have lost a lot of the “MUST GET SEX” drive that was pushing me into pursuing girls below my own standards. I feel less desperate and less rushed to be having lots of sex, at the expense of logic.

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How to get laid with socially active girl?

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Yesterday i went to the club with 6 friends which includes the social girl i am talking about.We are not so close because i wanted to keep my distance to avoid getting friendzoned. She is very social/friendly with everyone. The type that i don’t have much experience with.

Yesterday i have changed my style for club and prepared for any possibility of approaching girls there.I have noticed that “the social girl” was checking me out on our way to the club and in the club. Then while dancing with other friends she started to dance with me . I don’t how to explain but she was pushing her back against my cock kinda like trying to turn me on(it was like lap dance) .But then her other friends called her and she was gone . I didn’t have other chance to talk to her after that.

I would like to ask for advice to how to follow up after this situation.And have some doubts that is it normal for a social girl to do things like this to her friends or not.

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She’ll Text Me, She’ll Text Me Not

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She’ll Text Me, She’ll Text Me Not

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Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?

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For example, say an attractive guy walks on the street and comes across a woman who is average. He asks a few questions because he’s lost. The woman obviously makes it known that she is attracted to him while answering his questions. The guy is not aware she’s attracted to him and when they’re done conversing he just walks away. The girl is disappointed that he didn’t ask for her number or anything. Does she ignore it because most woman are shy and beta. Or does she ask him for contact info because she’s attracted.

In all my years of being alive, I don’t think I’ve seen woman doing any work when it comes to pursuing a mate, it seems like men really do everything. This is just my experience though.

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