The Inevitable Death of Day Game (& what this means for you)

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**Full Video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM)

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TL;DW:

Malls have just hit an all time low vacancy of 10%. The lowest in the decade, many are closing left and right.

As for night game? In the UK alone, 25% of night clubs have shut down.

While this is due partly to the new generation not being interested in these venues, online ordering and online dating play a huge role in this.

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In the US alone 50 million Americans have used online dating.

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**Bad news:**

The bad news is that social interactions will be more and more sporadic. The locations for these interactions are going to become less and less. So you’re going to have LESS chances of meeting and attracting women.

**More bad news:**

Girls are going to become less social, and more awkward. They will also become colder towards you, because of all the validation they receive online at a safe distance, they won’t really NEED your face to face ‘scary’ interaction.

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**Good news:**

The good news is that for the next 5 or so years, you will still be fine, but it definitely means that now more than ever? You need to take action to fix up your social skills.

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**Even better news:**

Because of this, most men will be PETRIFIED to be social, and they will have NO CLUE what to do when face to face with an attractive girl. So again, now more than ever is the time to take action.

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**Solution in 4 Steps:**

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The first step is commit to removing your fear of social judgement. Force yourself outside of your comfort zone, and take control of your approach anxiety once and for all.

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**2.)**

Commit to improving your social skills. Now the average Joe is not going to be able to just walk up and talk to a girl and know what to say, you need to put yourself in social situations on a continuous basis so that you can improve your social skills.

This means you REFUSE to spend the weekend at home alone again, you refuse to just sit in front of the TV and let life pass you by, and you BUILD an AWESOME social circle filled with gorgeous women.

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**3.)**

Only when you’ve REALLY built up steps 1 & 2 should you even consider moving to The 3rd step. Make a commitment that you will learn how to master online dating and social media so that with only a little bit of effort, you reap all the rewards that most of the guys out there are going to be completely missing. half ass efforts will yield half ass results

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**4.)**

Get a mentor.

A few years ago I thought I could tackle business alone, the sad part was, every time I’d try something, the market evolved faster than me, so I was scrambling to learn the next big thing.

In my health and fitness I thought I could figure it out, and even though I had a good idea of what to do, I didn’t know the exact measurements of foods to eat, the weights to lift, and the repetitions to do.

There’s no shame in saying I’m not an expert at this, I need someone who’s figured it out to help me.

In fact, there’s more shame in trying to figure it out alone and wasting years of your life not getting the results, when you could be getting results in just a few weeks.

I don’t care if you go and get someone else as a coach. But get yourself a coach.

(Even if it’s your buddy James who’s crushing it.)

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**Full Video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM)

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College Tution

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We used to masturbate for each other… (Silver Lake)

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We met on here back when CL was not the shit show it is now, and used to masturbate for each other. Everywhere we could. I think about it so much still, I wonder if you do to?
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Looking for day game locations in Los Angeles

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Can anyone give a list of busy places in LA where people are just hanging out and not constantly moving and doing other things during the day? I went to a mall for day game and could not really find sets that were standing still. Everyone was constantly walking.

Advice on how to open sets that are moving in a way that does not drastically inconvenience these people would also be welcome.

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Retired “player” wants to know how the game has changed

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I was mostly active from the heyday of Usenet ASF till around 2012 when I made a conscious decision to hang the gloves. I had my ups & downs, but looking back, I also had a lot of fun.

Recently, the game’s siren call has been trying to seduce me. I’m not really in a situation where it would be wise to put on the gloves again but I’d still like to hear how the game has changed, if at all.

For example, have things like Tinder made it easier? Have any of these feminist SocJus flare ups like #metoo, #yesallwomen, etc affected how players need to go about things now?

Educate this curious old man.

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When would the right time to ask her out on a date be?

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I’ve ran into this situation countless times. I’m not really phased if she rejects me, but *I just want to make sure I learn from previous mistakes*. Theres a very pretty girl who I have spoken to briefly before in person. She’s in the social circle but an outer one. Showed a bit of premise, had her giggling and tried to take her to another spot (go get a drink at the bar) to which she said she had to stay with her friends. I wanted to take her somewhere else too early into the interaction, so it didn’t work. Lesson learnt.

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She’s always been the one really consistent person on social media liking my stuff (doesn’t really suggest much these days). Anyways I forgot about her and I was at a club talking to some friends at a table. She was standing close-by and we made eye contact. I gave her a smile and she came over to me, gave me a kiss on the cheek as a greeting and asked if I was going out to a club in town. I said no, to which she replied no as well, saying that she’s going to go home. Anyways, she said she was going to go talk to her friends and that she’d chat to me later. I didn’t see her that night, because I was engrossed in a conversation with some friends over cigarettes. The next day I hit her up on snapchat (I know most people go for number closes and then call or text, but I feel like everyone my age would find that very weird) and built a bit of rapport on the chat feature. Then she started sending me pictures of her first before I sent one of me. Been snapping for maybe 2 days (not back and forth, maybe once or twice a day each). Got a couple of suggestive snapchats of her in a sports bra with a bit of cleavage, but didn’t think much of it. Left it seen for a couple of hours. Sent one back when I wasn’t busy doing things to which she didn’t respond for 20 hrs. Then she sent me a photo of her making up her timetable. I was thinking maybe this was supposed to sway me in the direction of asking her out?

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Anyways, I’ve never really had a definite and excited ‘yes’ to come on a date with me. This girl is smoking hot but I’ve constantly reminded myself that she’s just another girl, with the bonus of looking a tad more attractive. So… seddit, what is your take on my sitaution and where to from here?

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Messages not being sent

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So I’m sending messages and the app says they are sent but don’t show up in the sent box or the chat log. Happened to me yesterday around the same time. I’m not sending anything provocative, just having a conversation.

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