Pick something really fucking embarrassing for me to say

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So I’m doing this program called fearless and you’re supposed to make a fake phone car in front of a large group of people and embarrass the fuck out of yourself. Max picked coming out of the closet to his parents but I think that would make me laugh too much. I was thinking I could do one where I act like I got cheated on and I am the ultimate cuck. Will pick the highest rated comment.

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I Hate How Much I Like This Girl

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Ok so heres whats up. I’ve went out with this girl twice now and were both in university but I hate how much i like her. On our first date we went out and there was some good chemistry between us and she was completely comfortable with me reading her palm and putting my arm around her so by the end of the first date we had kissed a couple times. She told me that normally she doesn’t kiss on a first date so i joked that i must be an exception to that rule. This girl is really fun to be around but i could tell she had some heavy baggage.

We went out again a week later and grabbed some lunch and had a pretty deep conversation about how her ex boyfriend friend was abusive, how she has anxiety, and also had a drug problem. This really resonated with me because ive also had problems with drug abuse in the past, and when i go out with other girls im afraid to bring it up because i feel like that would scare off most girls. After this heavy conversation, i brought the mood up and we went for a walk and she told me how she wants to spend time to “find herself” which I think was a hint that shes not ready for a relationship. We kissed later and then she basically said that shes not gonna kiss me the rest of the date, since she broke her rule the first date.
After the walk we headed to a board game cafe and had a good time together. At the end of the date i went in to kiss her goodbye but she said no so i basically just said alright and left.

I dont know what to do with this one since I want to date her since we get along really well and i feel a connection but there are some red flags that are bothering me: I don’t know what kind of relationship she’s looking for, she said that she used to go back to her abusive ex boyfriend for free drugs, and that she had a couple sugar daddies in the past since “they mostly just wanted companionship”.

I went out with another girl who was really great to try and get my mind off of her but i even while i was out with her, i still found myself wanting to be with the first girl. This new girl was great in her own way, but i dont feel the same way as i do with the first one. Do i just keep this girl on the back burner?

We are planning on going on a date in a week but i don’t want to get invested in this girl unless something can happen between us. Is a third date too early to sit down and have a talk with her to ask her if this relationship is going anywhere?

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Approach Anxiety struck this morning! Here are 5 things I did to overcome it…

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I got approach anxiety today. l can happen to the best of us.

Some woman sat alone in a cafe, scrolling on her phone.

Atheletic, yet glamorous. Intimidatingly beautiful.

We were the only people on in the cafe , save for some elderly couple in the corner and a half a dozen bored staff members stood incredibly close to her.

I didn’t want to do it. The heart rate rose. The excuses flooded in.

Here are some thoughts that went through my head that convinced me to do it anyway.

# I remembered how shit it feels to pussy out.

Worse than trying and failing. Every damn time.

# Knowing who your perfect 10 is…

Recently I was asked to describe my perfect 10. It’s important to know exactly what you’re looking for physically, because then there are no excuses strong enough to justify not opening.

# Remembering all the previous times you’ve been nervous and it’s opened smooth…

Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real.

# Remembering all the previous times you’ve been nervous and it’s not opened at all…

Nothing terrible happened, and you still felt better for shooting your shot.

# Our community

I’ve co-launched a Telegram group for men who want to become incredible with women. Hundreds of guys sharing their success stories and getting feedback on their sticking points. A real brotherhood. I’m regularly helping get over approach anxiety in this group. It’s a cool little tool for when people are nervous in the moment….Still, who the fuck am I to give advice to anyone if I can’t go over and say hi to this girl.

If you ever post advice on Seddit (or any community) and scoff at other people’s posts, you should feel the same.

# So over I went…

Dropped the standard daygame opener and she looked like a deer in the headlights.

Plowed through by explaining what I liked about her appearance (athletic yet glamorous). She still looks alarmed.

I tried to break the tension with a joke, asking if I recognised her from the Olympics. She laughed and the set went super-smooth from there.

We chat for 20 minutes or so, and it appears we have no interests in common. I said I’d like to ask her out, but i’m not sure what we’d actually do together. She says she has a 60-year-old white boyfriend anyway (I live in Thailand, go figure).

Anyway, this outcome further highlights that daytime approaches really are no big deal.

Make good decisions this weekend, guys!

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