I’ve been thinking a lot for a couple of days about the dynamics of *interesting* and unconventional conversation topics and this sub seems to be a treasure chest full of it.
In addition to this, I’m also looking for a style of conversation that appears to be random and fictional – something that just keeps giving. I was talking to a gent in a previous thread where he mentioned he used to come up with fictional tales of how he was in the Bolivian Intelligence Agency and detailed his adventures in a way to both have something to talk about and make the girl laugh.
I’d also like to know an unconventional method to open a with a girl without starting with her name. I came up with up a ‘look at that couple there, how long do you think till she slaps him” and something on those lines.
1. How do you approach a potential girl when they’re in groups?
2. When there’s a lull in the convo, I simply stare at her with a half smile. This generally goads her to come up with something. I’d like to have a proper backup- what’s yours?
made a video to summarise the top 5 lessons in the book Models By Mark Manson.
**Link to the video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hs0d7Da8ufo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hs0d7Da8ufo)
The tagline of the book is “how to attract women through honesty”.
I am always trying to improve these videos to provide as much value as possible so any suggestions on how I could do that would be really appreciated.
Also any book/podcast/youtube channel/general self improvement suggestions would be awesome too.
**I’ve also done summaries of the following books:**
* the power of intention
* deep work
* the magic of thinking big
* the alchemist
* the E-Myth revisited
* feel the fear and do it anyway
* the art of war
* the lean startup
* the hard thing about hard things
* crush it!
* delivering happiness
* the personal mba
* the $100 startup
* zero to one
* the compound effect
* the prince
* the slight edge
* who moved my cheese?
* the one thing
* the 6 pillars of self esttem
* 7 habits of highly effective people
* secrets of the millionaire mind
* thinking fast and slow
* the power of positive thinking
* think and grow rich
* how to win friends and influence people
* rich dad poor dad
* the subtle art of not giving a fuck
* models by mark manson
* the power of now
* 12 rules for life by jordan peterson
* the 10x rule
* the inside out revolution
* man’s search for meaning
* how to stop worrying and start living
* millionaire fastlane.
* and some others…
**If you’re interested and want to subscribe here’s a link:**[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfbLDMh6uGOZePAfqqjVZ-g?sub_confirmation=1](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfbLDMh6uGOZePAfqqjVZ-g?sub_confirmation=1)
So long story short, I met this girl in my class in uni, I am very interested in her. She laughs at my jokes, we have things in common and im assuming she likes my company. But today I overheard a conversation between my crush and her best friend. They where talking about some guy, who I dont know who he is. All I heard was the best friend asking my crush something like this “oh did you guys kiss”, my crush responded “no”. I was dam happy with that response, although her best friend asked another question like this “but do you like him”, my crush’s response was not clear, all i heard was “he is cute”. So Im writing this post down, to ask you guys, if she is really worth it. I was going to ask her out for dinner, but after hearing that Im not feeling confident anymore, what should I do?
TL;DR: My crush talked about this random dude and she might have feelings for him, should I still invite her for dinner?