First of all I’m not trying to brag, I feel like these facts are important for this community to understand the situation. I’m tall, muscular, and attractive.
Last night at a university party I was walking home afterwards with some girls I met. So these girls keep saying things to each other things like “Yea he’s hot but like he’s wearing a visor” (I was wearing a visor i think it looks good on me), and they said it just loud enough so I could hear them. And I playfully called out “I can hear you guys”.
These jabs and insults continued most of the way back and I knew it was some kind of test and I’ve experienced it before. Anyway, I never got upset, defensive, aggressive…etc. I just rolled with the punches and teased back a little too.
But we live in the same residence complex and I asked one of them (slightly isolated from the rest of the group) if they wanted to come to my room and got denied.
WHAT DID I DO WRONG?
and also how do I respond/react to girls insulting me as a test?
I know it’s a long shot, but we chatted via the Personals awhile back but never connected. We were chatting about meeting up in the early AM hours on the regular if you know what I’m saying. I’m tall, attractive white male — muscular / toned build, …
For 31 years I never knew about eye contact and the power it held when talking to people. Especially when talking to women. I never felt that connection before and I have to say that it’s pretty awesome if you know how to do it properly without creeping the girl out lol. I always got rejected in the past because of that. I got a couple dates but it was purely based upon looks. I got so good with eye-contact that I’m able to hold a conversation and lead. After I learned that I used to take rejection seriously and wonder why it happened. I even got obsessed and wasted 2-3 years of my life over one girl which was sad and pathetic. Now I’m able to flirt with any girl and instantly move on because I know how to create that connection with someone else.
So I was out all day approaching today at the mall and I noticed that it is pretty hard to find single girls walking by themselves.
I’ve gotten pretty good at approaching and number closing single walking girls. Its easy to be direct with just one girl standing in front of you but how do you about approaching a girl with her friend?
It seems like 90% of cute girls I see in public places are always with a friend so how do you approach and number close the one you’re interested in?