So last night I was feeling really down about this girl. My one chick friend texted me, asking if I want to meet her and her friends up at a club. I wasn’t feeling it at all, but I took some kratom and thought fuck it! Let’s fucken go, tonight might be my night.
I haven’t hungout with this girl in years, so I was a bit apprehensive but she seen me, gave me a big hug and introduced me to her *hot friends* I was like fuckkkk! I’m glad I came out! One of her friends, a Spanish girl..was really into me, my chick friend kept telling her girl how cool I am. So I was with her the entire night..I made sure I wasn’t too eager but at the same time I did alot of kino and teased the shit out of her, she thought I was hilarious. I kept making sexual jokes towards her and she was blushing and laughing. Her friend had this long black stick thing that looked like a whip, so I made a move to grab it and told her to turn around so I can spank her, but the fuxken stick broke lol. It felt so good though, to act out in confidence like that. I was doing everything I felt would amuse me in the moment, I wasn’t really trying to make her laugh. I think that is key on a night out, live for yourself, don’t worry about impressing a chick.
Everytime I distanced myself from her in the club, she came and grabbed my hand and took me with her..we held hands the entire night. I could have made a move, but I talked myself out of it! Fuck. She was mentioning how she wants to hang more with me and gave me her number without me even asking for it. BUT before she gave me her number, she told me she had a boyfriend and that he’s rich and spent 1k on her and her friends before, that I should meet him..wtf lmao. She wasn’t acting like she had a dude, so it left me confused. I’m thinking she isn’t that commited? Girls are so confusing dudes. Should I wait for her to text me or what? I need advice.
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Who here is guilty of this? Just remember that friend or not – she probably feels the same way too
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It’s kinda tough to talk to someone that doesn’t have the same energy as me or atleast try to match it
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A little context to my question (feel free to skip to the end if not interested in my background).
I do not want to sound boastful but I’ve never had issues attracting and sleeping with women. I was in a very social fraternity in college which allowed me to intuitively understand the mindset of abundance and develop my game.
Since graduating and starting to work full time, I do not enjoy drinking and going out near as much, which was an important source of lead traffic.
I did dating apps for a while and got matches/dates/hook ups but it felt so bland and boring.
I was turned onto cold approach by first watching thatwasepic on YT and thought the idea looked exhilarating.
So long story short I checked out that Todd guy, RSD, and my favorite is Tom torero because he is so practical.
The last step is just doing it. I’ve tried recruiting friends to game with, complimenting girls as I walk by to build momentum, etc. I just haven’t taken the next step to start conversations consistently.
Does anyone have any different tricks or tips to just sack up so I can talk to the copious amounts of pretty girls I see on a regular basis?
I know that rejection is nothing serious (I’m in sales so I face rejection every day).
To be specific, does anyone have a quick psychological exercise to combat the made up stories we tell ourselves before deciding not to approach?
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So I briefly spoke to this girl over a few days, I asked if she’d like to meet up, she said she’d be free this coming week and she’d love to meet or food or coffee. So I messaged her if she’s okay with certain cafe, she hasn’t read that message or even replied, while she’s online.
Anyway, is it a good idea to double text her? If yes, what do I send her?
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So when chatting with girls I will sometimes have these conversations where I feel like I learn very little about them.
What are your go to questions to find more about her.
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This site is a bot overload joke
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