First, i was never fully involved in daygame training, the closest i was from there was practicing with women i met in work, in a store, etc. more like a library rat, learning a lot about theory, but almost nothing compared with i could do, it may be an important factor of this phenomena.
Due reasons that in the end are not more than excuses, i left the social dynamic practice, and became near to the boi i was before knowing the community, with an invisible wall of “rust” in me. I percieve that my hability to “translate” women or corporal language, as the mood of people in most of cases is fading more slowly, thing that i can lean on to continue (or begin) my training, and also gives me a hope (the flesh is weak, overall for sloth when you realize how far you are from your objectives).
Does this happen only in this case, or is it more normal, maybe something we all have to deal with?
In any case, Im thankful to recieve a tip to overcome this, as someone in the same situation that could be helped…
success for you all
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So in class this girl walks in and theres two empty seats the one in front of me and the one next to me, she was about to sit in front of me till she saw the free seat next to me and decided that seat, like 30 mins in she didnt talk to me till she had a question about the work but chatted a little here and there after the question , I noticed she mimicd my movements a little, what now?
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Hey guys,so I’m here in my college cafeteria and I see this extremely cute girl doing her work so I go and sit beside her. Although I haven’t talked to her yet (she seems engrossed in her work) I gave her all physical cues i.e turning my body towards her , I asked for a pen which she declined in the beginning saying ” I only have 1″ then I said “just for 2 Minutes ,on which she agreed” and then proceeds to take out atleast 2 more pens from her bag to continue doing her work, as well as leaning away from me. Is this a red flag? Should I next her , or try to make conversation when I get the opportunity.
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So I’m sending messages and the app says they are sent but don’t show up in the sent box or the chat log. Happened to me yesterday around the same time. I’m not sending anything provocative, just having a conversation.
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So i have made 2 other posts regarding the same girl, and honestly i was just thinking too much, i was isolated in my home and away from any interaction (including the opposite sex) for nearly a year due to hospitalization and death of a pet, and made me realise that girls are normally confusing asf but it is fine in the end.
So she and i are on a good pace of things, no red flags from either sides and her friends love me, i was thinking of giving her a gift, a small gift, i alrdy got the gift, its not expensive as well, since she likes BTS so much, ir is something related, but i have no idea how do i go about giving her the gift cuz of my stupid anxiety and nervousness towards females, and my fk up-ness when im shy, should i just clip it on her bag and let her notice (i sit beside her), be like, i got something for you and give it to her? Idk man whats the best way to go for this.
Also gna ask her out soon, and if it doesnt work out well, harder to do then say, but needa move on.
All help appreciated.
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