I had a cute, super sexy neighbor who I got to meet because she is friend of another girl friend of mine. She used to go to my place and I borrow her some of my books because she loves reading.
Thing is, one of my best friends was sort of into her. He said he loved her but all of his friends knew he just wanted to have sex with her. Hell, even he was aware of it but wouldn’t admit it.
So, whenever my best friend was around her he would hit on the girl but would never take another step. Sometimes he would play the Casanova+Christian Grey seductive bad guy, sometimes he would be the shy guy who doesn’t know what to say to her. She teased him sometimes but most times wouldn’t take him for serious. Hell, he spent like 3 months teasing her but without making any further advance and I criticized him for that.
Now, the problem is this: I also wanted to have sex with her, as bad as my best bro wanted. However I never made a move with her because I felt like it would hurt my friend.
Two things I’d like to explain:
1- He is one of my best friends, almost like a brother to me. We’ve been friends since we were 11 (we’re 26 now), helped each other countless times, we’ve been through a lot of bad shit together. He is someone I can blindly trust and he knows I have his back at any problem.
2- Like I said, I borrowed books to the girl. She went to my place many times and we got to be alone on my room A LOT of times. She liked me *as a friend* but would make a lot of physical contact while hanging with me. We had some “hot” moments together: once I trapped her on my room and told her she would have to kiss me in order to go out and she jumped at me ready to french kiss my throat…but my lil sister broke in looking for something (hell of a bad timing right?); she let me took pictures of her and she didn’t mind when I zoomed on her breasts or when I talked about her breast’s size (she has huge tits); she wouldn’t care if I got too close to her, hugged her for too long while pressing my “buddy” against her “kitten” or “accidentally”touching her breasts.
As you can see, despite considering me as a friend we had a lot of contact and I feel like if I made the right moves I would have had sex with her. But, like I said before, I feel like I will be hurting my best friend.
She moved to another country a couple of months ago and my best friend is already into other girl.
So, what do you think I should have done? Talk to my friend and tell him I had more chances with her than him? Ask for his “permission” or ask if he would be ok with me hitting on her since I had a higher chance of get her?
EDIT: *Me and my best friend, sorry for the little mistake in the title
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