Girls Straight-Up roasting me

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First of all I’m not trying to brag, I feel like these facts are important for this community to understand the situation. I’m tall, muscular, and attractive.

Last night at a university party I was walking home afterwards with some girls I met. So these girls keep saying things to each other things like “Yea he’s hot but like he’s wearing a visor” (I was wearing a visor i think it looks good on me), and they said it just loud enough so I could hear them. And I playfully called out “I can hear you guys”.

These jabs and insults continued most of the way back and I knew it was some kind of test and I’ve experienced it before. Anyway, I never got upset, defensive, aggressive…etc. I just rolled with the punches and teased back a little too.

But we live in the same residence complex and I asked one of them (slightly isolated from the rest of the group) if they wanted to come to my room and got denied.

WHAT DID I DO WRONG?

and also how do I respond/react to girls insulting me as a test?

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What is the best book on to seduce women at work?

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Like I know what y’all are about to tell me
“Don’t do it”

“Don’t dip your pin in company ink”

I understand that I shouldn’t but I’d like to know the best way to go about doing it if I decide to

That being said
What is the best book for this

What book teaches you how to converse with and hookup with women at work the best?

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Couldn’t close the deal

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So yeah… I fucked up.

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This girl I know and I have been flirting a bit lately, nothing over the top but clear IOI from both sides. There was a party this Friday that both of us were going to which was a perfect opportunity to make a move. The moment I arrived she immediately hugged me and teased around. I had to meet some friends so I left her there.

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As the party went on I rarely saw her but one time I had the perfect opportunity to kiss her. I didn’t. I didn’t want to do it literally in front of everyone but I was more afraid to fail than anything else. At least those were my excuses at the time.

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For a moment I also gave up a bit since I thought a common friend told me that she didn’t want anything but I could’ve misheard it for the opposite since the music was loud and he was leaving.

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I got devastated when the next day I got called a pussy by one of her friends. I didn’t ask the reason nor did she explain but I think there is no need for an explanation. I was a pussy.

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So sedditors, how does one just thinks “fuck it” and goes for it. Sometimes I am on that state of mind and get amazing results of of it but it happens less often than I would like. Another thing I notice is that my male friends are often much more comfortable with women than I am (dancing, touching, etc.). I’ve grown better at that but I am still so “closed”…

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Feed me advice!

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Tinder is really starting to mess with my head

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I redownloaded tinder again after having great success with it 4 years ago and deciding its time to start trying to find some new girls now that I’m single again and finally have a car and am in shape again. Over the last two months I’ve been through 72 matches where not a single one resulted in a meetup. It doesn’t seem to matter how strong I start or how I approach trying, I never can seem to get one to actually go ‘yeah let’s meet tonight’. Sometimes I’ll get a phone number, maybe a snap, whatever, but if I even get far enough to what seems like a prime moment to initiate a meetup, I end up flaked or ghosted and I just can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong.

Now I know what everyone here is thinking, ‘if tinder sucks so bad for you, try cold approaching’. But the thing is, if I can’t even get girls in a place that’s designed so that we both already know we find each other attractive, how will I have a chance in hell doing the free for all that is cold approach in which the girls might not even find me attractive in the first place? At least in my head it feels like if I can’t pull from tinder, then it’ll be an even more fruitless effort if I try to just walk up to random girls

I’m really at a loss here. I need some direction

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I draw blank after saying hello, speacially at night game, I just don’t know what to say at all

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i say hello or whatever, she laughs and then boom, nothing, I just dont know what to say, please help me

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