Guys pls share your review on shogun method, and how is it different compared to rsd ?
One thing that main guy from rsd got 100% right was embracing that you suck (if you’re a newbie) at picking up girls and being stoked for every title victory, no matter how small, even if a girl talked to you for like 5 seconds. I really wish I had acted upon this mindset more often.
I let my stupid ego take me over for most of this ride.
A snapshot of my journey thus far:
My brain: You can’t even go talk to that girl? Lame bro.
*Talks to girl
My brain: Ok well yeah but you didn’t get her number.
My brain: Yeah well she probably won’t text you back.
*Texts me back
My brain: So? She definitely won’t come meet you in person.
*Meets me in person
My brain: Yeah well you probably won’t bang her.
My brain: Yeah well that was only once, she probably won’t be your fuck buddy.
*Becomes fuck buddy
My brain: And? She probably won’t let you stick it in her butt.
*Sticks it in her butt
My brain: Well yeah but…
My brain is an asshole. Fuck you brain.
Looking back it sucks because for a guy who was been socially weird most of my life I’ve actually had a fair amount success with women on this journey – But I haven’t truly appreciated the awesome experiences I’ve had thus far, and don’t really give myself any credit for the steps I’ve taken to improve myself with women.
Almost all of my lays have come from dating apps and I think getting with girls though a dating app and getting with girls through cold approach are two entirely different ball games. I’m pretty much gonna have to humble myself and start all over again when it comes to nightgame – And this time, no victory is too small, give yourself some god damn credit. If you read enough of this sub you start to subconsciously think that every guy on the planet is cold-approaching women, they’re not. Be proud of yourself.
1) Not knowing how to put ourselves out there – I feel like some of us just want to skip to the point of our lives where we’re able to approach and talk to attractive girls without it being a problem. I think to get to this point we gotta learn just to talk to everybody first. Going to events (i’m in college for example, there’s always events), gatherings, etc is probably a good way to just talk to people. I know this is one area I have to improve on because I’m not a big talker in general (introvert, stays to myself kind of guy) Social Circle goes here in my opinion as well
2) Always thinking about the end goal – Now I’m not sure 100% sure on this but me for example I’m always (or at least a few times a day) thinking about sex (virgin). I know its a process to get to that point with a girl but I still feel like I need to tweak this mindset a little bit
3) Overthinking – I feel like you can fit a lot of things into this problem. Overthinking what to say if you ever decide you want to approach a girl, overthinking when/what to text, overthinking if she likes you enough to have sex, the list can go on (Anxiety can probably go into this as well). Only solution I have for this is to probably get more experience, but maybe can give more help on this
If anyone wants to give advice or list their own problems go ahead. We’re all here to learn and bounce ideas off each other
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I’ve been noticing that when I’m talking to women I have no interest in I can easily make them laugh and I feel more confident around them and it just a different vibe than when I’m talking to women I’m interested in, my confidence is less, I don’t know what to say to them, I’m more in my head. I want to take my attitude towards women I’m not interested in and apply that attitude towards women I’m interested in.
So today I went out to do some daygame! Took the subway to the city center and started looking for girls to approach.
1. Saw a cute girl standing by the bottom of the escalators of subway exit looking at her phone. I know from experience that this means that she is waiting for someone (who is her boyfriend half the time) who can show up at any moment while I’m in set. So I pussy out and walk by her and go up the escalator rationalizing reasons not to approach her. Then I get to the top and turn right back around and go back down the escalator thinking fuck it I need to stop being a pussy and approach. So I open her with the I’m new in town and saw you and thought you were cute line and ask her who shes waiting for. She says her friend and I ask her if its her friend or boyfriend and shes like friend. Small talk about where I’m from and I suggest meeting for coffee and ask for her number… and at the exact moment her friend shows up, so I hand her my phone and have her put her number in and exit.
2. I go by the central library and notice a lot of cute girls coming out so I find a spot at the bottom of the stairs where its kinda quiet to approach. I stop a girl and she is very not into it and pretty much total blow out.
3. Next girl I stop coming out of the library is really sweet and nice we talk for awhile and then when I suggest meeting for coffee she says she has a boyfriend. I still number close anyways even though zero chance she will meet me but I’ll still send her a text asking to meet up.
4. Another girl from the library and also total blowout.
So lesson learned today is just to always approach. You never know how it will go and how open a girl is unless you at least try to open her. Also outside the library is a great place to meet cute girls.