A cry for help

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Hey guys I need any kind of advice on how not to lose this girl. I went on a date with her the other night and she seemed like she was kinda into me. We were meant to only go to a movie but after the movie we sat in my car and talked for another 2 hours. I asked if she wanted to do it again and she said yes, but now when she texts me she seems more distant than before. She still texts back and everything but I really like her and I want to make sure I don’t fuck it up like I have so many times before. Any advice is appreciated

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The Inevitable Death of Day Game (& what this means for you)

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**Full Video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM)

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TL;DW:

Malls have just hit an all time low vacancy of 10%. The lowest in the decade, many are closing left and right.

As for night game? In the UK alone, 25% of night clubs have shut down.

While this is due partly to the new generation not being interested in these venues, online ordering and online dating play a huge role in this.

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In the US alone 50 million Americans have used online dating.

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**Bad news:**

The bad news is that social interactions will be more and more sporadic. The locations for these interactions are going to become less and less. So you’re going to have LESS chances of meeting and attracting women.

**More bad news:**

Girls are going to become less social, and more awkward. They will also become colder towards you, because of all the validation they receive online at a safe distance, they won’t really NEED your face to face ‘scary’ interaction.

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**Good news:**

The good news is that for the next 5 or so years, you will still be fine, but it definitely means that now more than ever? You need to take action to fix up your social skills.

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**Even better news:**

Because of this, most men will be PETRIFIED to be social, and they will have NO CLUE what to do when face to face with an attractive girl. So again, now more than ever is the time to take action.

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**Solution in 4 Steps:**

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The first step is commit to removing your fear of social judgement. Force yourself outside of your comfort zone, and take control of your approach anxiety once and for all.

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**2.)**

Commit to improving your social skills. Now the average Joe is not going to be able to just walk up and talk to a girl and know what to say, you need to put yourself in social situations on a continuous basis so that you can improve your social skills.

This means you REFUSE to spend the weekend at home alone again, you refuse to just sit in front of the TV and let life pass you by, and you BUILD an AWESOME social circle filled with gorgeous women.

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**3.)**

Only when you’ve REALLY built up steps 1 & 2 should you even consider moving to The 3rd step. Make a commitment that you will learn how to master online dating and social media so that with only a little bit of effort, you reap all the rewards that most of the guys out there are going to be completely missing. half ass efforts will yield half ass results

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**4.)**

Get a mentor.

A few years ago I thought I could tackle business alone, the sad part was, every time I’d try something, the market evolved faster than me, so I was scrambling to learn the next big thing.

In my health and fitness I thought I could figure it out, and even though I had a good idea of what to do, I didn’t know the exact measurements of foods to eat, the weights to lift, and the repetitions to do.

There’s no shame in saying I’m not an expert at this, I need someone who’s figured it out to help me.

In fact, there’s more shame in trying to figure it out alone and wasting years of your life not getting the results, when you could be getting results in just a few weeks.

I don’t care if you go and get someone else as a coach. But get yourself a coach.

(Even if it’s your buddy James who’s crushing it.)

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**Full Video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCyO6PxMuGM)

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How to message girl I previously messaged , talked to for a while and then chickened the fuck out ?

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So guys how do I reinitiate convo , are there some joke or ice breaker to help me ?

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The psychology of seduction | Raj Persaud | TEDxUniversityofBristol

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The psychology of seduction | Raj Persaud | TEDxUniversityofBristol


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winggirl

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how should a winggirl

act?

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what she should do?

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Can you talk to a girl that aired/ignored you?

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Basically I was taking to this girl for a while and she suddenly stopped replying.. it was on Instagram and it said she didn’t read the message, so obviously aired me.
But she’s been liking my photos so it’s kind of mixed messages.

Would it be weird to send her a double message? What could I say?

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