As a black woman, How do I make myself appealing to men?

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Women of all sexualities find me more attractive than men.

Men find me average to slightly above average so just like the normal girl

I’m straight so it’s a problem

[https://i.imgur.com/h1UuVoV.jpg](https://i.imgur.com/h1UuVoV.jpg)

[https://imgur.com/a/IUOWOGE](https://imgur.com/a/IUOWOGE)

[https://imgur.com/a/kdVK0Cr](https://imgur.com/a/kdVK0Cr)

[https://imgur.com/a/J8pOHA2](https://imgur.com/a/J8pOHA2)

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I just need to know what I need to get done on my face/body.

Yeah I know girls are usually pickier because we always compare ourselves but that’s why I’m confused why women find me more attractive.

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Have I fucked up yet? If not, where do I go from here?

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Okay, so here’s the situation. Occasional lurker and first time poster here, I’ve made a throwaway because obviously I don’t want people knowing about this. To be honest this post is made out of anxiety because I rarely put myself out there like this. I try to dress nice and all and I have friends that I talk to on a daily basis, but I don’t really do anything outside of work and any free time I do have I usually spend it locked in my room. I have had a life long struggle with anxiety and I’ve always had a lot of trouble holding conversations and trouble with social situations in general due to me being on the spectrum. I apologize if this post comes off as a rambly mess.

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So, girl I’ve been interested in for a while followed me not to long ago, she’s cute and I know we have some of the same interests cause I’ve known her for a while and we never really talked like that. She used to date a friend of mine a few years ago and another friend of mine tried to get at her a little more recently but that was shortlived. So not long after she follows me (later in the same day if I remember correctly) I started talking to her through DM’s. Things go pretty well but I’m honestly kinda scared to say anything that gives off any vibe other than friendly. Then, she casually mentions this party, and said something along the lines of “It would be really cool if you went” So I decide to go, even though I fucking hate parties more than anything. I took some shots and smoked a little weed before I left but it wasn’t to the point where it was obvious. So I got there a little bit after she did and she happened to be there with a mutual friend. So we’re there for like 3 ish hours and nothing really happens, didn’t really get the chance to do all that much since the friend was there almost the whole time. There were some points though where I feel he might have been trying to go out of his way to leave us alone. So after that I get home and I’m still talking to her through dm’s. I don’t think she’s NOT interested cause she stays up late talking to me but the conversation doesn’t really go anywhere flirty (unless things are going over my head, which there’s a good chance they might be) So where do I go from here is my question. Is this a lost cause yet? If not what do I do, also if this isn’t the sub for this type of post let me know and I’ll take this down and post it on the appropriate subreddit.

Thank you

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Getting to a club early

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Should I get to a club say 30 minutes early to maximize my chances of success before it gets too cramped?

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Lots of fun

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What are some more realistic movie/TV Show scenes to actually study from?

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I’ve been watching Silicon Valley, and Erlich in the Season 4th seduces someone by continuously complimenting and blatantly hitting on the lady while she uses negative body language – later he successfully does that because the lady thinks she’s ‘settling’.

Idk if it’s realistic, but it sure as hell was fun to watch and a few instances from my life where I wasn’t blatantly hitting but was a tad bit cocky works, so I guess?

So to people who have been doing this for a while: What movies/TV shows have realistically good scenes that can be used to learn from?

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Best way to pull a girl in high school?

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Im 16 in grade 11 and i dont really have a crush on anyone but would like to start chatting up girls, there is one that I have had my eye on for a while but she is in none of my classes and sits with her friends at lunch, is there anyway i could start chatting her up? What should i say? (Im very new at this) and how can i talk to her? How can i make her attracted to me? Is this unachievable? Thanks guys!

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Warming up before going out: High-energy (trollish) vs normal “social guy” vibe?

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do you guys think that warming up by being a high-energy troll is better or worse than warming up by chit-chatting and asking people for time, directions, and starting normal converastions?

I warm up by being a troll by doing crazy things like shouting compliments at people, doing pushups in public, yelling “I love you” to random girls passing by, but I think it puts me in a too much high-energy mode where I can’t actually connect and build rapport with my sets. It’s almost like a crutch to cover up my anxiety because I have to hype myself up so much just so I can do an approach, and then when I actually do and start talking, I’m too hyped up that I can’t really run my game and I need to keep up that too high energy that most people find it obnoxious.

Any thoughts on this?

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