made a video to summarise the top 5 lessons in the book Models By Mark Manson.
**Link to the video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hs0d7Da8ufo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hs0d7Da8ufo)
The tagline of the book is “how to attract women through honesty”.
I am always trying to improve these videos to provide as much value as possible so any suggestions on how I could do that would be really appreciated.
Also any book/podcast/youtube channel/general self improvement suggestions would be awesome too.
**I’ve also done summaries of the following books:**
* the power of intention
* deep work
* the magic of thinking big
* the alchemist
* the E-Myth revisited
* feel the fear and do it anyway
* the art of war
* the lean startup
* the hard thing about hard things
* crush it!
* delivering happiness
* the personal mba
* the $100 startup
* zero to one
* the compound effect
* the prince
* the slight edge
* who moved my cheese?
* the one thing
* the 6 pillars of self esttem
* 7 habits of highly effective people
* secrets of the millionaire mind
* thinking fast and slow
* the power of positive thinking
* think and grow rich
* how to win friends and influence people
* rich dad poor dad
* the subtle art of not giving a fuck
* models by mark manson
* the power of now
* 12 rules for life by jordan peterson
* the 10x rule
* the inside out revolution
* man’s search for meaning
* how to stop worrying and start living
* millionaire fastlane.
* and some others…
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Me and my ex broke up a little over a year ago and I honestly made a lot of mistakes trying to her her back like begging crying gifting etc. I went in and out of no contact making the same mistakes but this time around when I contacted I did all that I could do to not bring up the past and I did great I talked to her for the past 2 weeks just as friend and we both flirted and she even would text me “good morning have a great day :)” so I felt like I was getting some where this time finally we’ll we had a date set up
For yesterday after I got off work and she went all day without texting me and an hour after the scheduled date she canceled and said her aunt have her a surprise visit ( they live 6 hours part) I asked her how long she was visiting for and she said idk so I’m assuming it’s a bs excuse but I played it cool and say well hey maybe next time we can get together and have some
Fun. Any way today rolls by and I started feeling a little needy and I sent her the can I ask
You something text she said yea of
Course I basically said hey I love you and I have made a lot of great Changes in my life and talking to you lately has been great we finally
Get along its bringing back the good memories but I see myself getting needy with you again which got me here in the first place I guess I’m just trying to see where do we stand. She replied you’re a real special person in my life but at this point, i’m not ready to pursue anything else other than friendship right now. I replied I understand and I would love to be friend but I just don’t think I can because I truly love you and being your friend and not your lover will just be hard and hurt I appreciate you telling me that and hey I’d love to be your boyfriend again and just let me know if you change your mind. Did I handle this right? Should I have done something different how can I make myself to be congruent with that I said?
Guys I’m 18 male.i have a very bad social anxiety(only with girls and women) and I feel hard to approach people. Small talk really possess me off.Even though I see women every time staring at me and my friends say I’m handsome … But approaching a women is still a problem for me ….I am good in academics and a talk a lot with guys and get girls attention I mean they state at me. I am popular among class. But once I managed to approach few girls asking about something about some help but the girls get intimidated by every time I approach they start acting like a weirdo.. I don’t know why this happens with me…bcos already I’m scared to approach …after approaching they talk to me in a weird manner..like..looking at me and their answers won’t be proper I mean they stammer.. or say something irrelevant….I feel that I’m of no worth to women or girls….. Anybody please say a solution please help……
Today I managed to talk to the girl I’ve been eyeing in class for the last 3 weeks. Got her number, and she even walked with me for a little bit after class to talk.
First steps to breaking my shell after ditching my Oneitis dead weight.
As much as people jump in the deep end and walk away doing well this has been a slow build up for me and I couldn’t be more proud. It’s taken a long ass time and I want the rest of you to know that it’s okay to go on your own pace as long as you’re not using it as excuse for not trying.