Just want to know how many of us still interested and didnt get it if we can make something out of this situation
Question for the good looking guys of this subreddit, how often are you rejected at the club/bar?
Ive always been very introverted with social anxiety and I’ve recently been putting myself out there after reading “ Models “ by Mark Manson. Anyways the last few times I’m able to push through the fear and attempt an approach I get shut down.
Now not to pat myself on the back here but I’ve been told by people around me that I’m a handsome guy and a couple people said I should try out modelling but Ive still been single and getting rejected when out at the club. I mean I rarely approach maybe like twice in one night
Is it really just a numbers game then cause I will try like two attempts on a night out and then feel shitty with a bruised ego the rest of the night.
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Ok, so I’ve read this book called “The dark side of hypnosis” and I’ve learned A LOT from it, but there are somethings that I couldn’t understand, I’m pretty sure that there isn’t many people who’ve read this book or didn’t even hear about it, so I’ll try and make my questions about this book super easy to get the best out of its answers!
1st. The book gives you some examples on how to show people that you’re a high value person, but smh it seems really complicated and really hard to understand, and tbh I don’t know if I can walk up to someone and tell them how amazing my life is knowing that this person might have a more exciting lifestyle, so, the question is, how do I make an interesting story about a nothing but regular life? I mean, I might run into a situation where people might think that I am a show off smh, while I’m not!
2nd. How do I use the technique called “Fractionation”? I know it’s effective but, I feel like it’s awkward smh! I mean imagine I’m walking up to a girl, and tell her “How comes pretty girl like you, has a bad and depressing life!”
3rd. “This question has nothing to do with the book.” Many people think that I am a player knowing that I’ve never ever had someone to call my own, literally, NEVER! Both girls and boys think so, and they usually tell me that the reason is how I look, I mean I see myself as a regular guy living the best out of his life, a person who hates player “And that’s true, I try to stay away as much as possible from these people, all they do is hurt other people’s feelings”, and a person who hates showing off!; so my question here is, Is it okay for people to think of me that way? I’m pretty sure that the last girl rejected me because she thinks I’m a player! She said that I’m cute, but she rejected me.
Hope you guys help me! Adiós 🙂