What music is playing the clubs?


I have a lot more fun dancing when I know the songs and I only know like 1/4th of them. The clubs I go to near my college have a lot music I don’t know. The DJs play stuff from Living on a prayer to Mo Bamba. Before going regularly I assumed it would all be recent stuff but it’s deifntiely a mix of recent and older stuff, mostly hip hop. Any good playlists I can listen to so I can recognize more of the songs?



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Austin, TX – wingman for daygame in ATX


I want to start doing cold day-game approaches, to find a couple of guys to motivate each other and help in each others’ Game and development.

I’m thinking going to the Domain or downtown/Whole Foods to start.

We can also do night Game if we have a spare weekend night too here and there.

I’m 27, pretty comfortable with women 1-on-1 on dates, but other aspects of my Game need practice. Send me a PM or reply here.


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I am looking wingman in Poland


Hello guys, i am in Poland and i am looking for wingman in big cities.

I am very good at daygame, nightgame and texting.

I can teach game and i need someone who knows poland very well. If you want to learn game and hangout with me pm me.


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Hello..!!! (Lancaster)


Fun with a nice lady. 420.. No men. Send pic.. Mobile

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[Long Story] Just done what i should have done months ago…


(keep in mind English is not my first language, also it’s a long story so happy reading !)

Hey guys ! My first post here, today I’m gonna tell you my story about me and my roommate.

A little info about me, i am a 19 years old and i live in an house with 2 roommates and this girl, i’m gonna call her Lolo, she has the same age as me. I have a big crush on her, she is funny and cool, beautiful and pretty chill when we spend some time together but I have to say I wasn’t able to tell her…

But something happened yesterday, we made a party with some friends i didn’t see since months ago, there was some much alcohol and weed, i drank, enough to be in a good party mood and smoke too (first joints though). My friends and my other roommates knew about my crush for her, and it was hurting me too much, they were telling me “Come on man ! Go tell her already !!!” and i wasn’t able to, because i was afraid of the future (would be pretty cringe for the next weeks ect..) and i don’t have that much experiences for that..

But later, Lolo said she wanted to go to bed, immediately all of my friends look at me, meaning that it was my time to shine. And because of the alcohol and weed, i was in a mood where i would be able to tell her, and i knew that if i do not tell her, i will regret it heavily.

So 2 minutes before she goes to bed, im standing up, following her to her room before she close the door, I ask her if i can talk to her :

Me – “Hey Lolo, i need to talk to you about something before you sleep, please.”

Her – “Yeah what is it about ?”

Me – “No i need to be with you in private, it’s a big thing i need to tell you”

Her – “Oh, what is it about ?”

I enter the room and directly close the door, and here i am, with her, with the worst feeling in my head : fear of rejection.

Me – “I think you already know this… uuuh… ” I chuckle, i can’t find my words, i’m completly in a no-comfort zone

Her – “What is it about ? I sincerely don’t know what do you want to tell me”

Me – “Okay, you gonna find this stupid but, it’s been since 6 months that i know you, and you’re pretty cool and all, and i always enjoy spending time with you, so… I profit of this occasion and the fact that i’m quite drunk and high to tell this, but, Lolo, i have some feelings for you, big feelings, i wanted to tell you that. The fact that you move out in June is pressuring me to tell you that, i don’t ever want to regret, sorry for not having be clear since the start. Im a mess, i know that, but at least you know the truth now”

Her – “Oh.. I sincerely didn’t saw that you were feeling that for me, you’re an amazing guy, but i never felt the same about us, i’m sorry to say you that..”

Me – “It’s okay, i already knew i had no chances, but i wanted this to end, it was pressuring me too hard for too long..”

Her – “Don’t ever ever change, you are amazing how you are, i hope you will find a girlfriend as good as you are, you deserve it, to be honest i have some feelings for other persons, but i’m not building anything on anyone because i don’t even know where i will be in one year, i have projects and studies, and i don’t want to be falling apart because of that. Thank you for telling me the truth, it’s good that you told me now, it would have been really cringe if you told me on a regular day like that..”

Me – “Thanks for being honest with me, you are the best roommate i have ever had, I’m not gonna forget this conversation, but don’t worry, now i gonna move on, and we still gonna be roommates and (friends ?)”

Her – “Sure ! Don’t worry, it’s completely fine !”

And i come back to the living room, my friends watch me, ask me about what happened and all…

The day has passed, and the mood is still good, we didn’t talked about this at all for day, idk if it’s a good thing or not, and i don’t know if she remembered, but now i’m asking several things : What should have done better ? What do i do now ? Should i move on and think about something else ?

Anyways thanks for reading me, i hope i didn’t bored you with my story and that you could help me saying what i’m gonna have to do now.


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Advice on escalation / midway through the date: Great initial connection, then it fizzles, and not sure why.


Hi folks, question for y’all – I find that I’ve generally become decent at the first 10-15 minutes of a date. Funny, charming, good banter. I ask girls lots of questions about themselves – people are genuinely really interesting! But then it seems to sort of fizzle – I don’t know how to move the ball forward, and the energy seems to deflate. I’ll go for a kiss, but at that point I can tell the mood is not there, and when it does work out, it seems almost like an accident.

For context, I grew up in an abusive household, and up until about two years ago, I used to weigh 130+ more lbs. (Scope the [before and after.)](https://imgur.com/a/iJVOTEo) I have been in therapy since August to work through all of these things, but I imagine much of my confusion comes from not knowing how to be the person I look like.)


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Facepalming my older self


Sometimes when I look at my older self (about two years ago or so) or am reminded of that in some reason, I just facepalm myself. I am sure I wouldn’t get along with that guy now. Hopefully, I would love to be best buds with me two years from now.

Pointless sentiment just a thought I had. Keep Improving guy in whatever activity you choose to partake be it seduction or whatever strikes you fancy.

Have a good day!


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How I stopped being a pussy


These are the 3 big things I’ve picked up on recently. I went through a shit break-up last year and it took a lot of time to get my game back. This subreddit helped me get through tough times so I am paying it forward.

1) Cocky comedy will take you far. Being playfully cocky will instantly separate you from 90% of social interactions she has with other males. Cocky comedy comes from the perspective that **she is the one who is after you.** When meeting a new woman, challenge her from the very beginning. Instead of pursuing her, put it in your head that she is the one pursuing you. Don’t be afraid to bust her balls, but make sure it’s in a teasing flirtatious way. One way I like to use cocky comedy is by using a made up “strike system”. I’ll say something like this: “Oh, you don’t like pineapple on pizza? That’s gonna be a strike. This isn’t going to work out.” I take something small and blow it out of proportion as if it was a relationship deal breaker. The secret is a sly delivery, as you don’t want to come off as arrogant or try to hurt her feelings. Cocky comedy is a way to show that you’re not intimidated by her and that you like to have a good time. It’s also a good shit test to play on women.

2) Stop relying on logical characteristics to get women. This one took me a long time to figure out. I used to think “I’m an above average looking guy, I wear nice clothes, I’m not a fuck-up, so why aren’t women throwing themselves at me?” The thing is, having “logical” qualities is great to possess, and you should absolutely work on becoming the best person you can be. **But the reality is that logic ain’t gonna get you laid.** In order to attract women you must do so on an emotional level. Attraction is fueled by humor, charm, smart-ass comments, unpredictability, wit, i.e. the intangible characteristics. You MUST make a woman feel a special way if you want to attract her. The extra stuff (nice job and car) is just icing on the cake once you’ve already attracted her.

3) Understand what confidence looks like. You always hear people say “just be confident around women,” but what the fuck does confidence even LOOK like? I figured out that **confidence is just a sense of security in future events.** When talking to women, speak with certainty in the future. Replace your “if’s” with “when’s”, and stop staying “I think” and “I guess.” Communicate as though you already know you **will** go on a date with her, and that you **will** end up kissing her. You’ll start to notice how this change in mentality will subsequently change the way you carry yourself. If deep down you’re still insecure (which is okay) then fake it till you make it.

EDIT: Glad to see the reception this got! I’m going to make a post in a few days outlining some cocky comedy techniques. Be on the lookout for it.


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