Should I get to a club say 30 minutes early to maximize my chances of success before it gets too cramped?
So I’ve been talking to this girl and I’m person plenty of flirting, touching, and banter. However she never texts first no matter what. Is this typical and I also have to be the one who reaches out to get the conversation going. I tested this out one day I said I wasn’t going to text her and at the end of the day nothing happened. The next day I texted her something and a response in a matter of minutes. Then we go back and forth for a bit and leave it for the next day since I see her and I’m so much better at game in person.
Do you guys always have to initiate communication or does it sometimes depends on the girl?
So I’m good looking and I’ve been said I’m hot and that I dress well. I have many friends (and girls). Problem is that I was never famous because I’ve started being good looking and taking care of myself since 10th grade. And to this day I have this insecurity that I don’t stand out and that people forget about me.
So specifically, what happens with girls is that I don’t really like any girls at my school. And I’ve only liked girls that don’t go to my school. Sometimes it has worked out for me but I’ve never gotten in a relationship. Now, my only solution is Instagram, where I’ve found a lot of girls that I like and have talked to some of them. However they never say yes to to go out and I believe that’s because they’ve never seen me in person (and honestly I agree with them having security issues).
How am I supposed to meet up with a girl I like through Instagram if she’s never seen me? And there’s also the issue of not being kinda famous because they don’t really know me. I would really appreciate your help.
(Please don’t say you’re still young and you’ll do better when you grow up, that’s annoying)