A guy with adhd and questions.


Hello, to make a long story short I’m a guy who after a lot of forgetting and lost paperwork got retested and I have ADHD combined. I’m naturally extroverted and at the community college I go to and work at many people wave or stop to chat. People have told many times that I am smart “cept math fuck that”. And that it can make people feel bad. I try to be a good person and end ever convo with I hope it goes well or have a good day. But I have no true friends. It’s always been like this. I’ve questioned myself with others if I insult others accidentally and that’s when I get a no and the smart speech. Every time I get a girl’s number it ends up at a I just wanna be friends or no reply which I stop after 2 no responses. I’m a bigger guy stocky everyone assumes I played football as a linemen. I’m trying to work on it but the ADHD makes meal prep a bitch and the wild eating is always at night. And I’m not some white night or nice guy to try to get in some pants. I just genuinely want the best for people and I think maybe it throws people off. Idk what I should do. Any sage advice?


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As a black woman, How do I make myself appealing to men?


Women of all sexualities find me more attractive than men.

Men find me average to slightly above average so just like the normal girl

I’m straight so it’s a problem






I just need to know what I need to get done on my face/body.

Yeah I know girls are usually pickier because we always compare ourselves but that’s why I’m confused why women find me more attractive.


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Where can I find Tyler’s structured exercises from his Hardcase Incel guide video?


Not sure where to ask this.

Tyler just released a video on youtube yesterday titled “How To Be Attractive If You’re Cringy And Socially Repulsive – Hardcase Incel Guide” ([https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1KOfj6y7FM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1KOfj6y7FM))

Now, this video is just a 2 hour INTRODUCTION to the actual course. But I have no idea what course it is part of. If you look at his pinned comment on the video ([https://i.imgur.com/joneSY0.png](https://i.imgur.com/joneSY0.png)) you’ll see that he says there is a huge event with structured exercises afterwards.

Where can I find THOSE exercises? What course are they part of? I’ll gladly pay if I can find those specific videos.




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Things to say after stack and vibe


Being a scripted robot is not ideal but good enough to approach girls and open them. These days I am better than used to be in night games, but I was terrible in day games because of approach anxiety. I pussied out “again” today even though I was out on street for three hours.

Last night, I was out in a club in South London. When I was in a queue, I bumped into two girls ahead of me. I chatted them up using some flirtatious spikes. They worked like charm. The brunette from up North in the group bought my spikes. However, her blond ladette friend a bit cockblocked me several times. Annoying! I put up with it. Smiled and left and went into the club.

Since I was in the club on the dance floor, I saw them dancing with other guys. I didnt’ care very much as I was busy gaming with other girls. Even though, I bumped into them when I got drinks, I didn’t give a damn on them, let alone said Hi.

Around mid night, I am not so sure. I was usually dancing on my own. Suddenly the brunette came behind my back and held my hand and said hi to me. Fuck me! I was shocked! I thought my game got ruined by her friend when we all were on the queue. I smiled back and suggested to buy her and her friend drinks as they gave me a can of gin and tonic when we all queued up outside.

IT WAS MY GAME TO LOSE. My head went blank. I don’t know what I should have said to them and escalated the vibe when we were all on the way to get drinks. Worse still, I made three huge mistakes:

1.) I escalated too fast. I touched and smacked the brunette’s arse softly as we walked to the bar for drinks. I couldn’t help it as I was horny and she was too hot

2.) I tried to kiss the brunette after we had shots together. My head was blank. Apart from going for the kiss, I got nothing to offer.

3.) While I was walking away from the brunette, I was negative saying to her that her friend not welcome me. Scrap!

Sigh!!! I fucked up!!!

**Here are my questions:**

In this situation, how and what should I say to keep up my chance after stack and vibe?

How should I deal with cock-blockers? Her friend kept butting in my conversation with the brunette and asking the brunette to leave.


Perhaps, they may have wanted their drinks back and they were after me……… I don’t know




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I think i am being catfished


Hey I think I am being catfished by this guy. 8 have done a reverse image search but nothing comes up in the Google one or tin eye. He avoids sending me a pic of flipping me off and he avoids video chatting. He also goes MIA on the weekends. He is under biggz011385


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How I stopped being a pussy


These are the 3 big things I’ve picked up on recently. I went through a shit break-up last year and it took a lot of time to get my game back. This subreddit helped me get through tough times so I am paying it forward.

1) Cocky comedy will take you far. Being playfully cocky will instantly separate you from 90% of social interactions she has with other males. Cocky comedy comes from the perspective that **she is the one who is after you.** When meeting a new woman, challenge her from the very beginning. Instead of pursuing her, put it in your head that she is the one pursuing you. Don’t be afraid to bust her balls, but make sure it’s in a teasing flirtatious way. One way I like to use cocky comedy is by using a made up “strike system”. I’ll say something like this: “Oh, you don’t like pineapple on pizza? That’s gonna be a strike. This isn’t going to work out.” I take something small and blow it out of proportion as if it was a relationship deal breaker. The secret is a sly delivery, as you don’t want to come off as arrogant or try to hurt her feelings. Cocky comedy is a way to show that you’re not intimidated by her and that you like to have a good time. It’s also a good shit test to play on women.

2) Stop relying on logical characteristics to get women. This one took me a long time to figure out. I used to think “I’m an above average looking guy, I wear nice clothes, I’m not a fuck-up, so why aren’t women throwing themselves at me?” The thing is, having “logical” qualities is great to possess, and you should absolutely work on becoming the best person you can be. **But the reality is that logic ain’t gonna get you laid.** In order to attract women you must do so on an emotional level. Attraction is fueled by humor, charm, smart-ass comments, unpredictability, wit, i.e. the intangible characteristics. You MUST make a woman feel a special way if you want to attract her. The extra stuff (nice job and car) is just icing on the cake once you’ve already attracted her.

3) Understand what confidence looks like. You always hear people say “just be confident around women,” but what the fuck does confidence even LOOK like? I figured out that **confidence is just a sense of security in future events.** When talking to women, speak with certainty in the future. Replace your “if’s” with “when’s”, and stop staying “I think” and “I guess.” Communicate as though you already know you **will** go on a date with her, and that you **will** end up kissing her. You’ll start to notice how this change in mentality will subsequently change the way you carry yourself. If deep down you’re still insecure (which is okay) then fake it till you make it.

EDIT: Glad to see the reception this got! I’m going to make a post in a few days outlining some cocky comedy techniques. Be on the lookout for it.


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21 Kissless virgin with conflicting confidence issues


I feel like there is something I’m missing that is keeping me from making any kind of connection with women. I’ve spent a lot of time on self improvement the past couple of years. I work out, I have plenty of friends and I’m moderately social. I assumed that these things would just naturally attract at least one girl but to no avail. Some people I’ve talked to were really surprised that I’ve never had a girlfriend, adding to my confusion of what I’m doing wrong. I’m confident in my looks and personality but have nothing to show for it. I kinda feel like a hollow statue.
I think the biggest problem is that I’m never really around women. I’m in a medical cohort for college and I am not interested in any of the girls at all. Most of my days are spent in school or studying. All of my friends are guys and I don’t go out very often. So my exposure to dateable women is small and sparse. I’m just kinda lost and not sure what to do.


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