[field report] my 1st five cold approaches! Can you help me review them?


After reading only Tom Torero’s Beginner Guide To Daygame (I didn’t watch his YT movie) I deciced to try these things for myself. This is going to be a long post. But that’s because I want you to help me, so I can do better next time 😉 Enjoy!


First approach happened near my campus. I noticed a girl with curly hair, with which I was writing my language exam. I saw her at the other side of the street, so I waited for her to go through pedestrain crossing. She didn’t notice me, walked past me and then I had a moment of anxiety, but I encouraged myself. Followed her a bit and then stopped her by wheeling in front of her (something what Tom Torero does). I did it nicely, because she stopped and I didn’t notice any sign of stress or fear. She took of headphones and I opened by saying:

“Hi, I know you from that language exam we were writing on friday week ago. That time you were talking with a friend, so when I saw you today I wanted to come and talk with you”

Then I said, that with those curly hair she could be a nice spanish girl, and it made her laugh. Later she told that she is in hurry and then I made a mistake, because I was occupied with what I will say next: she just asked “Facebook?”. I presumed she was asking, if I stalked her on FB or something, but it could be just an asking for just my facebook, so we could talk later. Well, I ignored it and told, that I thought she is an ukrainian girl, since in that language she was speaking with some friend before. She said, that she’s not ukrainian, but polish, and unfortunately I freezed out a bit. Instead of saying something like “wow, so how many languages do you speak well” or such I just said “polish? Aaa..” hahaha. She said, she really has to go, so I said bye and that’s the end 😛 


2nd approach was at the shopping mall. Before it I made a quick warm-up, I asked some guy about directions and well, he was going in that direciton, so he walked me to the place I asked about and we had a convo. Then I joked a bit with two girls, who were giving away some brochures. I entered a mall and noticed a young looking girl in pink sweater, doing her homework. I looked at her, came up with an idea, what to say to her, and hesitated for like 2 minutes, well, because she looked “busy”. I quickly reminded myself feelings that I feel, when I miss the opportunity and when I come up and break my anxieties. That gave me a boost, so I came to her, and opened:

“Hi, I know it’s unusual to be chatted up by a stranger, but I thought you look sweet, so I came to you to talk a little”

She just smirked, said “okay”, so I sat by her and told about that sweater; that because of its pink colour I guess she’s kinda sensitive and such, because today some girls like to wear adidas trousers to seem tough (well, wtf, now, when I’m reading this, it sounds dumb haha). Of course I didn’t say it that smooth :d She didn’t make any statement, and rather focused on her homewok. So, I asked, if it’s a language course, she replied, that she’s learning english. I followed by saying, that I’d choose a different language, if I was in her place, since I got so fed up with it, that’s why I’ve picked spanish and I felt, that this reply was kinda bad. Well, still she didn’t give any attention, so I decides to give it a last question and then, when nothing changed, after few seconds I said it was nice to try talking to her and I just said goodbye.


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Am I more likely to get laid if I lower my standards ?


So I’m kinda new to pursuing women and dating, I’m currently chatting to a girl at the moment who I’d rate a 5-6 looks wise, and semi chubby. I’ve kinda notice girls rated from 8-10 are very hard to pursue and can take a lot of time and effort. Girls rated about 7 can normally vary.

I’d honestly rate myself a 8-9 and I never really used to go for the girls rated below 7 but I want to improve my relationships with women more and get laid more.

So is it easier to pursue women and get laid by them if I lower my standards ?


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How to develope aggressiveness


I have been single for 6 months now, after 6 year long relationship.
I have this girl that I’m fooling around with, and she has a lot more experience than me.
She always gives me shit for being to gentle when I kiss her or not aggressive enough.
Today I tried dirty talking with her by telling her what I want to do to her and she just said “look who became brave all of the sudden” .

It sounds aweful but we have fun, I’m just trying to focus on a particular issue here:
How so I become more aggressive, touch women like they want to be touched (more dominant) and not give a rapie vibe ?

BTW this girl has daddy issues if this is of importance.


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Frame of a Princes – From Zero to Hero 8


[Field/Lay Report] K-CLOSE: Frame of a Prince



Night Game



Practice Hooking

Practice Frame – You are the prize, you are going over to talk to the girl not to fuck her but to have fun, get to know her and fuck her 😉

*DEBRIEF: I definitely bettered my self with hooking but I think I have to work on relevance and emotion. Also my Frame definitely got a huge bump and I could see the change of the bat



– A friend of mine came down to visit, now this man got out a long term relationship recently and lost his friends to his ex girlfriend. The people he works with is already married or to old. Also he has oneitis with a girl that only uses him to get coffee at work. I told him to join me, so that I can introduce him not only to game but maybe even get him more social. We started of at Brew 71 (A pub that opened recently in Centurion) and after that we went to Ridgebacks. Brew 71 was a bit quite but we just caught up and I gave him some concepts to game. I also found a few friends there which they told me they will meet up with me at Ridgebacks. Weirdly enough he has a problem with the concept of game, it seems he sees it as manipulating girls but I tried to get him to see it from my frame. I am not there to fuck the hot girl I am there to see if she is cool and getting sex is just a side product




Set #1

Look I need to be completely honest and I know you will be screaming chode but this is basically just to show how fucking powerful a good frame is. I have not approached yet and AA got the better of me. I was exiting the bathroom and a hot blond as well. We made eye contact and I smiled straight away. In my frame I believe I am the prize, “Sure you are hot but that does not mean I am going to fuck you” mentality. She smiled back and even walked straight up to me, ran her finger over my chest and said “Hey you”. Before I opened her, her chode friend from the side called her over. She left immediately. I just left… Chode! I was amazed how well that worked, just thinking you are the man and believing it makes the world of difference. Best is girls can see it. I know this does not count as a set but since Frame was in my brief I thought this was the best set that showed just that.


Set #2

I did some research on how to handle groups or a 2 set. The one thing that was pointed out in a 2 set is to game your target through her friend and man this is so fucking powerful. Holy hell. I saw a blond that I really liked with a brunet friend of hers. I entered the set, normal opener. “Hi there, I need to get back to my friends in a sec but you guys seemed like fun. My name is Sandman”. So weird using my alias instead of my name. Back to the story. I realized that openers really does not matter much only how direct the opener is. They friendly accepted me into the group. Did the best friend test with them and then I started gaming my target through her friend. “Your friend is so cute but something tells me she is trouble, is it true?”. Now my target loved it because the story is about her, my target’s friend loved it because she felt like she had power to steer the conversation as she liked and I loved it because I could feel the fun I am introducing to the group. Basically instant hook. “Yeah, you need to be careful she is trouble”. My target tried talking I stopped her. “Hey don’t interrupt, it’s rude, me and your friend is busy having a conversation” She laughed and kept quite. “I like girls that are adventurous, is she adventurous?”. Here her friend starts turning into my cheerleader. “Yes, you would definitely get along well with her”. I decided this is a good time to bring back the set to my table. My friend could keep her friend busy and I can isolate my target. I told them “I have to get back to my friends, come join me” as we are walking I talked to my target, flirting a bit more. She eventually cracks and tells me she is married. I crumbled later on as I thought it might be a shit test, turns out it was true. I felt the guilt of gaming a girl that had a husband. Talked a bit and then decided to head back in field.


Set #3

This was by far my best set. My friend’s cousin joined us at the table. At first I did not want to game her since she was family and our friendship is that of a close nature but I did so anyway. I realized the more she saw me walk up to other women the more she got attracted to me. We would talk and I would see a set approach and come back. This was so beautiful because I thought it would hurt my chances with her as my thoughts were that she would think “He is a player and I should stay away” but it was the opposite. I told her that I found her cute but there is something about her that seem like trouble. She qualified her self “I am not trouble I am just really awesome”. I said well you still have my attention so you must be. I decided to isolate her not to long after, it was her friend’s birthday and she told me I should buy her friend a shot and for herself. I told her that I will buy a shot for her friend but its not her birthday so I don’t understand why I should buy her a shot. Basically getting her to work for her shot. She started qualifying her self again saying “I am a great girl, so I deserve one too”. I told her I have met a lot of great girls but that does not mean I buy them shots, first she needs to tell me what kind of shot she likes. Tequila. I love tequila so I told her that was the correct answer and rewarded her the shot. After the shots I told the friend who’s birthday it is that I am stealing her away for 5 minutes and looked over at her and said “You better not try and make a move on me”. I grabbed her hand and lead her away to an isolated area. While we were walking she wanted to know where we are going. “Disneyland!” She was ecstatic. I looked her deep in her eyes and told her some story about my hobby of running and painted a picture, the emotion, the beauty of it and why I felt everyone should do it. She then threw a shit tested me which I only realized up until now while writing the field rapport “You seem to be on drugs”. “I am, I abused some whale hormones before I came out tonight”. She laughed and rested her hands on my chest. I threw my arms around her waist. I told her “I knew you were trouble but I like it” and went in for the kiss. We made out very passionately and after a while I ever so slightly moved my hands up her thighs, I felt her hand brushing it away so I retreated but still kept making out. After some make out I told her that she is very adventurous and I have not met a lot of women like her. We went back to the table. Talked, held hands and talked to the others. My friend had no problem with me advancing on her. I isolated her a couple of times and made out with her some more but I feel like I over did it and that I came off as to needy but it seemed like it did not bother her. On our last isolation while the club was closing I numbered closed her and time bridge to a date on Tuesday.


*3 POSITIVES: What did I do well tonight?*

– My Frame was so strong on each interaction. This definitely helped with getting over the initial AA pretty quickly.

– I am isolating much more and escalating better.

– I handled the two set very well by gaming my target through her friend


*3 NEGATIVES: What did I NOT do well tonight?*

– I was needy due to so many make-outs.

– AA got the better of me with the hot blond

– My emotional connection was off as I only told one story about my running


*3 LESSONS: What are the lessons?*

– I realized that my verbal escalation needs work

– Social proof is much stronger and that I should not be scared of coming off as a player

– I am passing shit tests without me realizing it.


*QUESTIONS: What questions do I have?*

How would you verbally escalate?

How could I have tried to sexually escalate in the club?


*1 ACTION ITEM: What am I going to work on tomorrow*

– Establishing emotional connection and also work on verbal escalation.


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2 dates and nothing.. should i just confess


So yeah pretty self-explanatory … It’s just strange due to being known in my small town as a manwhore and I don’t think is true but how the fuck I’m not able to at least hold her hand , should I just confess to her or i shall take her out on a date for the third time and if nothing happens call it quits.. I just really like her and want us to have a long and profound relationship


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First date with a friend


Hey gurus, going for a private dinner with a colleague, with whom ive been friends for a long time. Need some pointers re what gifts do i get her.
We are good friends and do hang out during social events, but this is the first time im going out with her in private.


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