Im still a pussy

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So im out of town hanging with my buddy in Mississippi. Im from Pennsylvania and yet I cant seem to talk to the cute girls. I can talk to random people. But good looking girls I just clam up and can even approach. Can anyone help me with this. New Orleans tomorrow I need to get some balls.

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I got a girl from OK cupid to give me her number and I don’t know what to do now

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I was being flirty and sexual. She laughed a lot at my puns and when I asked her if she had any free days she said she’s busy with school and I gave her a witty reply. She laughed and I asked for a rain check and took her number. I’m looking to get my dick wet and lose my virginity but I’ve got no clue what my next step is.

She gave me her number on Saturday and I only texted her to confirm her number. I made another risqué comment along the lines of “you can call me” avid” because I plan on letting you have the D.” her reply was “🤗🤗🤗” so I think she’s down but I don’t know what to do.

What should be my next step.

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2 Questions: She does not want a LTR

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Hello Seddit,

posting for the first time here, lurking for over 2 years now. I have 2 questions concerning seduction/ltr I can’t find a solution for.

Short resume of me: I’m a 6’0, 25 years old student. I go to the gym 3 times a week, know how to dress and am fairly good looking. I have read models, how to win friends and several other books on body language. Confidence is no problem for me.

Problem 1: In the last year I dated a girl for a period of 3-4 months had sex and spend some really fun time with her. At some point though, I wanted the girl to be my girlfriend. As you can imagine, the girl was just not sure if she wants a relationship aswell. So I was emotionally more invested than she was. At this point the “relationship” was over. I am now in the same situation with another girl. I am fairly sure that if I talk with her about having a relationship, she would be unsure aswell. So what can I do? I know I can not force her to be my girlfriend.

Problem 2: I know sex is a game of give and take. I know, I give more than i receive, so how can I adapt my behaviour in bed that she wants to make me more happy? Just give less?

Thanks in advance and have a good day!

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[FR] From Third Date, how can I escalate it to a relationship / physical / sexual ?

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I’m 24 and met a nice girl on Bumble a few weeks back (That was very much my type), however only got to meet in person about 2 weeks ago.

(2 Weeks ago): First date was meeting in the local bar in town, we just both had one drink then she drank soft drinks and so did I, we chatted in detail getting to know each other, sitting opposite each other. We stayed until the bar shut, then I walked her back to the train station, I went in for a kiss on the lips goodbye however got rejected and she turned her cheek. Whilst with her I scheduled the next date, that was dinner through the week and hopefully some mini-golf after.

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(1.5 Weeks ago, 3 days later from 1st date): 2nd Date, met for dinner at a local Italian restaurant (Which was our favourite cuisine together), again sat opposite each other, and enjoyed the conversation over dinner. Then asked her about Minigolf after dinner, however she said it was a little late and was quite tired, so we just stayed talking the rest of the evening at the restaurant, until it shut. Then walked her to her car, and got her to kiss me on the cheek goodbye. It came up in conversation that she does a local park run every Saturday morning at 9am, with her gym crew friends. I somewhat self invited myself. However the day before I pulled out, as I felt it was a little stalkerish just showing up to her local run, with her friends, plus wouldn’t be with her that long as she was going to the gym (Which I’m not a member of) after, and then had a jam packed weekend.

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My largest observation from the first two dates, was that we could talk endlessly about ourselves, and find common topics of conversation, however I wasn’t sure how to turn conversation into something more.

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Currently I’ve been single for just over 2 years, since an Ex of 2 years in University and have only had two girl friends before, the other one being in the end of high school for just about 2 years. Previously the girlfriend in university happened in one day, where we were living in the same building and I met and then went to her dorm room with a bottle of wine and we watched a rom com, and then escalated it and started making out, which lead to sex on her bed ( I think the wine would have helped back then 😉 ).

However now with this single spell of no sex or girls for 2 years, I find myself out of touch, especially on how to game without alcohol and game on multiple dates to lead up to sex.

So I read quite a few posts on /r/seduction and also read “Double your Dating” by David Deangelo. Previously I had listened to the audio book “The Game” by Neil Strauss, and read half of the “How to Lay Girls Guide” that Style talks about in the beginning of the Game. Also watched quite a few videos on youtube by Style (Neil Strauss).

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Today: 3rd Date, Met for takeaway hot chocolates and went for a walk in the local park by the seafront to watch the sunset. Got some good conversation, holding her hand, and talked about the surroundings trying to make her more present in the moment. Asked her what she’s fascinated about ([https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5zzL1g9ZI4](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5zzL1g9ZI4)), what came out was currently the gym (sporting exercises, i.e. running, gym, hand stands and calisthenics), and crime thriller TV shows. Played Style’s 5 question game ([https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23Dt1xb9oIw](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23Dt1xb9oIw)), on her and that then lead to good Kino with hugging and laughing. [However I was unsure on how to escalate this into a kiss, or something more]. We did sit down and stare somewhat into each others eyes, however just talking still. Ended up continuing to walk in the park and ended up doing some handstands with her. Walked back to a local bistro-pub and got pint of cider, and played some table football for a couple of games then we both ordered burgers and chips. Whilst we were eating, she was telling me about a house party that happened the last weekend and how an old man tried to stroke her back and put his hand on her inner thigh. She did it to me, and I did the same back to her, I felt quite turned on that moment, and we did stare into each others eyes, then laughed it off. She was showing me some photos on her phone of the party, and then I decided to show her some of a fancy restaurant I went to in another city with a mate, however she saw a tinder message notification on my phone, and she seemed somewhat put off by this. (I’m not sure how to bring this up her, I’m hoping that it will be okay, she’s by far the best match I’ve had and liked allot after meeting). She then ended up drinking soft drinks again, and I did the same. We played some more table football for quite a few games and then she said she was tired, so I walked her back to the train station. This time she went in for a kiss goodbye on the lips and then left.

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We talked about I could join her for a run after her work through the week just me and her. We also talked about that she’d like to watch game of thrones some time, however she said she’s put off by dates that have tried to get to “Chill” and watch game of thrones (As she’s told me about a tinder that invited her to his house to make pizza’s and then tried to have sex with her after some TV, however she said she ended up leaving and was put off by it). Talking with her, she’s been out of the dating game for 3 years also, she talks quite quickly and can get flustered quite easily.

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So reddit, any feedback, and on next steps whats the best way to escalate the relationship to something sexual ? As I’ve read I should not be a nice guy, as women want a sexual partner that then gets turned into a long term partner. Any particular date ideas, that we could do ? Also specifically is there any games I could do to get more sexual attraction ? And or get us passionately kissing each other ?

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Is this approach towards women on PoF the new thing now? If so I’m out

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Is this approach towards women on PoF the new thing now? If so I’m out

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Can some women tell me how many times a day they block someone?

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I did an experiment a while back, i made a profile, added women to my favorites, used the favorite list to access a message history which was blank and went through them one by one, blocking them, that profile lasted a day, I blocked around 20 people.

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I’ve always been curious about the inner workings of pof, I know for sure some aspects of the site are different for women, you have a flirt button, we do not is one example.

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Its my belief that women’s profiles are harder to get banned than men’s, so how often do you block someone ladies?, I blocked ten women in a day with that experimental profile, it was gone the same day.

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I would love to get a good look at how pof operates from the inside, there’s sure to be some shocking stuff there.

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Here’s some things I have been able to piece together, most are anecdotal with only the effects to infer these from, so they will only be partially true or the end result of an unknown process (speculation).

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Getting blocked around ten times is a ban or a flag for a ban.

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There is a strange “flag” that happens when you sign up without circumventing the i.p block, your profile will have an odd glitch and the sent message screen (where you go into messages you have sent, not the confirmation) will be different, messages won’t get through, there’s around 30 minutes for the autoban to kick in.

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Pictures are actually not marked in any way and its safe to upload previously used pictures, they don’t trigger a ban.

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Email addresses might cause a ban if previously used, I have not tested this yet.

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People can’t message you once you are flagged to get banned, I have confirmed this, cross checked it with alternate profiles, messages were not getting through just before getting banned.

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There was a slight change in the site’s coding a while back, used to be sent messages would be deleted if someone blocks you, this is no longer the case, only the link from your inbox is now deleted when you are blocked, you can still access sent messages from the sent message folder and block them in return.

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If you want to know if someone has blocked you without messaging them for the message that says you are blocked by the user, add them to favorites, people who block you don’t show up in favorites, and they are removed from favorites once you get blocked.

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