at 24 years old, as the ex-virgin hardcase newbie loser blah blah blah, i have begun my ascent to stardom
for i, a not very good looking (imo) skinny white boy, went up to a bomb ass blonde girl in my class, without asking her permission sat down next to her, looked in her eyes, and said “hey/”
and all she said was “hey.” as if this was the most normal thiing in the universe. i then said, “i thought that was you looking at me the last few classes”, and she said “nah i was just looking for my friend”, even tho i had seen her do it and made eye contact. since i am still novice, i then kinda was like “oh ill go kms sorry for the trouble.” but this was the WORST thing to do, even though i feel very GOOD that i actually did an approach. what she said was either a shit test or not, but still, i was waiting for her permission to start hitting on her.
it’s a hard journey, and i think at the beginning, for the really formerly mild and meek guys, its really tough, but i still feel like i’m gonna get somewhere.
if she hadnt wanted me there when i first sat down she would have said so …. right?
Okay, so I’ve been obsessed with pickup recently and after facing 100s of rejections I’ve come to a point where I dont have much anxiety anymore and I can talk to random girls and people effortlessly in most settings but I still need a lot of work. I’ve watched tons of videos and read a lot but feel like being around others who have experience would help. If you’re really good and can teach me I’ll even pay you lol. I was wondering if anybody is out there that has experience in the game who wants a wingman or someone eager to learn and practice with them that lives near the boca/delray/ft lauderdale/miami area feel free to hmu. I want to get good at this.