I’ve been thinking a lot for a couple of days about the dynamics of *interesting* and unconventional conversation topics and this sub seems to be a treasure chest full of it.
In addition to this, I’m also looking for a style of conversation that appears to be random and fictional – something that just keeps giving. I was talking to a gent in a previous thread where he mentioned he used to come up with fictional tales of how he was in the Bolivian Intelligence Agency and detailed his adventures in a way to both have something to talk about and make the girl laugh.
I’d also like to know an unconventional method to open a with a girl without starting with her name. I came up with up a ‘look at that couple there, how long do you think till she slaps him” and something on those lines.
1. How do you approach a potential girl when they’re in groups?
2. When there’s a lull in the convo, I simply stare at her with a half smile. This generally goads her to come up with something. I’d like to have a proper backup- what’s yours?
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The key here is non selfish game. I end up getting into relationships with women and then walking away from the relationship and hurting them. They fall hard for me and I was not thinking that far ahead. I become a wannabe womanizer with a woman who is focused on long term monogamy.
These relationships happen randomly and infrequently with women that I come into close and prolonged contact with incidentally. I possess none of the skills involved in those first steps of finding, meeting, attracting and getting a date with women I choose to approach.
I am primarily seeking the skill set and the personal growth that can be accomplished by practicing pickup. I am not approaching this with the hedonistic goal of fucking as many hot women as I can with little regard to their emotional well being.
I want to create natural, positive interactions where I do not impose myself and my desire for sex on random unsuspecting women.
Give me some feedback on if and how this can be achieved.
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So I’m not really looking for advice here, just wanted to have a chat with you guys about a certain phenomenon I’ve experienced.
Have you guys ever noticed that once you get a girlfriend other girls (who shouldn’t know about your relationship) just instantly start paying you way more attention sexually?
I first heard about this from my cousin when he started university. He mentioned that he started dating a girl off-campus and girls on-campus, who didn’t know about the relationship, started giving him “the look” and flirting when they weren’t the day before. I thought he was just playing things up until I had the exact same experience during my university years.
Its like girls have an internal radar that detects claimed men and instantly adds 2 point to their score out of 10.
Its weird and wonderful and wanted to know if anyone else has had experiences like this?
Keep in mind that I’m only referring to girls who shouldn’t know you’re taken, I understand how social proofing works with those who do know your relationship status.
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