Is it me, or is r/askreddit an excellent source for conversation topics?

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I’ve been thinking a lot for a couple of days about the dynamics of *interesting* and unconventional conversation topics and this sub seems to be a treasure chest full of it.

In addition to this, I’m also looking for a style of conversation that appears to be random and fictional – something that just keeps giving. I was talking to a gent in a previous thread where he mentioned he used to come up with fictional tales of how he was in the Bolivian Intelligence Agency and detailed his adventures in a way to both have something to talk about and make the girl laugh.

I’d also like to know an unconventional method to open a with a girl without starting with her name. I came up with up a ‘look at that couple there, how long do you think till she slaps him” and something on those lines.

Questions:

1. How do you approach a potential girl when they’re in groups?

2. When there’s a lull in the convo, I simply stare at her with a half smile. This generally goads her to come up with something. I’d like to have a proper backup- what’s yours?

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You are weird! Red flag?

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If I am chatting more and more with someone they always come up with this statement. Aand the other thing : did I have any girlfriends before?

No exceptions.

Should I take this negatively or positively?

After the statement I usually give a funny answer or ask them why. But it just bothers me. I don’t consider myself as a creep but I don’t think everyone got this from every single woman.

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Lots of good signals of attraction in person and through text, then blows me off as soon as I ask her out

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I met a cool/very pretty Taiwanese girl at a meetup event today, we hit it off quite well. Lots of laughing/touching on her part, and she even came to find me and say goodbye before she left the place. We swapped numbers before then (she asked for my number, but I think she asked for several people’s numbers in the event so it doesn’t mean much). She also made a couple of suggestive comments like “You would be really popular among girls in Taiwan”.

I didn’t suggest meeting her again while we were in person, so I asked her out a few hours later via text. She basically blew me off straight away with a bad excuse, which was surprising given the amount of attraction I was getting off her in person. Here’s the message chain:

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>**Her:** Hey
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>**Me:** Hey Abigail! Was nice to meet you today, and glad you appreciated my accent 😉
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>**Her**: It was my pleasure to meet you too. Yeah I really liked your accent and sense of humour. I’m really looking forward to seeing you next time 👍
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>**Her:** This is the Chinese New Year event I was talking about, if you want more info just see here ___________.
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>**Me:** Looks good! You going?
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>**Her:** Nope I went to it last Tues. You should go though 👍
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>**Me:** Oh then we need to find some other excuse to meet!
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>**Me:** There’s a Taiwanese place called _____ in ______ that I’m planning to check out next week. Want to come?
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>**Her:** 😆what a lovely excuse!
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>**Her**: Sorry JDillaLikesDonuts 😭. I planned to do some decorating for my room the next couple of weeks. No worries just leave it to me. I’ll find the “excuse” to ask you out
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>**Me:** You’re decorating your room every day for 2 weeks? 😂 Okay looking forward to it

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Why would she seem so interested in person and through text, even message me first, then immediately proceed to block my attempt to ask her out? An obvious answer might be that I misread her, but through experience I think I’m generally quite good at picking up whether or not girls have that initial attraction to me.

Wondering if this is an obvious lost cause or whether I should hit her up again in a couple of weeks in the likely situation that she still hasn’t hit me up.

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Going to my first Frat party, any advice for a newbie trying to drop game?

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I haven’t really tried to game anyone in a really long time but I figured this party I’m going to be a great opportunity to man up finally and do it. I don’t have any particular goal of how I would want to end the night, but I want to try to go as far as I. I heard this party is going to be pretty big and it’d be super helpful to hear what kind of advice everyone could share. I don’t really know the vibe when it comes to women at frat parties so anything helps!

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Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?

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For example, say an attractive guy walks on the street and comes across a woman who is average. He asks a few questions because he’s lost. The woman obviously makes it known that she is attracted to him while answering his questions. The guy is not aware she’s attracted to him and when they’re done conversing he just walks away. The girl is disappointed that he didn’t ask for her number or anything. Does she ignore it because most woman are shy and beta. Or does she ask him for contact info because she’s attracted.

In all my years of being alive, I don’t think I’ve seen woman doing any work when it comes to pursuing a mate, it seems like men really do everything. This is just my experience though.

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When to ask for the solo date (post number close)

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I’ve just started going out and approaching women. I’m able to approach / talk to at least a couple of women in a night. I’ve been working on building confidence, and keeping a conversation going. My only goal is to work on AA, and keep her talking. Everything else is just gravy.

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Having pulled ~1 number per weekend (100% gain woot). How / when do I transition the interaction to get her out again? I’ve been trying to be direct. I’m busy, shes (probably) busy, why play games?

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Ex.1 Hey I would like to get to know you better, maybe over food?

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Ex.2 I’m going to the farmers market this weekend, you’re welcome to join me.

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Then I get ghosted. . . not sure why everything else was going great. I’m on weekend #3 of getting ghosted. The text conversation never lasts for more than a couple of hours to a day. Not sure if this is due to my texting game or how I’m approaching the subject. I’m quite tall and have a good job; which women respond well too. I just can’t seem to get them to actually hang out alone or really ever again.

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Bonus points for any day game tips (I’m working up to day game).

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