WTF, can someone Interpret this for me?


Met her on Wechat. We met once for coffee. We had a great chat. Didn’t expect it to go anywhere, told her I wanted to see her again.

Later in the week, needed the help of a Chinese translator to help me unsub from a dating site, met her and she helped me out. I have her a little something from my garden as a thank you.

We had a great chat. She told me “We can be friends but you can’t fall in love with me”. Ummm.. Ok!

Then coming home she’s texted me 12 times in a row… Affirmations about being happy (I’m quite a happy person), different pictures of herself asking which one I like best…

WTF is this?


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My first field report


I am newbie, who has read a lot but never done anything, I always had terrible social anxiety and decided and things really got worse when one of my professor insulted me by calling autistic(no offense to autistic people) and dumb.So I went out and baught Neil Strauss’s rules of the game. It gives you challenges everday for next 30 days,Today was the first challenge,basically I had to make small talk to five strangers today, i was able to talk only to four so here it goes.
1) The first person i talked to today was a guy.We were at the local government office to get our documents.Unfortunately it was closed so i asked him about where he was from, turned out we were from the same place.
2)The second person was a girl, i overheard that she was from the same med school which my brother attends, asked her if she knows him, she said no
3)Next were two girls.we have elections coming in next few days, so i told them that i made a bet with my friend about who gonna win the next election, whether it was party A or B and i want to know the popular opinion of people.They said B and then i replied by saying well that’s bad news for me because i am rooting for A, said thank you and then moved on.

What are your opinions on my progress so far?


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Anyone looking to cuddle (Palmdale)


Looking to hang out with any female. Bored and off today at work. So looking to do anything. Can drive and come to you or we meet up somewhere. I’m a guy

Check more…

Feels like trying to lose my virginity all over again…haven’t had sex in two years.


So I was a virgin till college. Then I started learning game and going out to bars and parties more and sex became easy and abundant for two years. Then I got in a relationship for two years, graduated, and then broke it off. I had sex a couple times directly after but since then it’s started to feel like a Herculean task to even get a girl to so much as show interest in me.

I can’t figure out what happened. I try pretty hard, I’m extremely active on tinder and cold approach whenever I’m out and about but nothing ever comes to fruition anymore and girls don’t give me any signs of interest, every time I text them and make convo they ghost me after maybe a day and if I try to meetup, they always say no, so I don’t even know what to say to them anymore.

I can’t figure out what is wrong now. It used to be so easy to get laid. Maybe I aged into my looks poorly? Maybe I forgot everything about game I knew over the course of time with a gf.

I just can’t figure it out and it’s so frustrating because my desperation to get laid sometimes comes out by accident. Like I said, it feels like I’m trying to get laid for the first time again.

It’s like someone put a fucking hex on me


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Walking Dates


So guys who take girl for walks as dates or as one of the first dates, how do you make them interesting and engaging?


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My Honest Guide To Get More Matches (And Dates) On Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge


My Honest Guide To Get More Matches (And Dates) On Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge


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[xMODx] Updated Seddit Rules / Posting Guidelines


**Edit: Get this to #1 spot guys!**

##Rules / Guidelines

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When evaluating if a post is appropriate, the golden rule is to ask yourself: *”Does this post help guys meet women?”*

##Appropriate Topics

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Great field reports focus on the **techniques, mindsets and phrases** you
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If FR is a failure, then be sure you can point out specifically what would
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A good FR says *”This is what I did, and why it worked”*.

While we appreciate functional Field Reports, often users post what are
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| I went to the starbucks today, and smiled at cashier, but got too nervous to say anything so I just left.

This doesn’t do anything to help guys meet women. Share positive value with
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Many of the guys that have transformed their lives started as some of the
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