19 yo I Know i shouldn’t be focused on this girl but i’m émotionaly attached to her and i think she’s a bit émotionnaly attached too , we spent some great Time together. the problem is she ignore my message even when we we’re in couple , what should i text her that would make her intéresed more ?
I know creating an emotional connection is key- how do you go about this? What kinds of questions do you ask? What conversations do you start? What kind of responses do you give to answers you get, to get closer to a stronger emotional connection? Would like to hear your tips 🙂
Hi guys, I’m on mobile so forgive any mistakes (also have no idea on how to view a sidebar on my cell).
So recently I’ve been pulling a ton of women and have no problem escalating kino, keeping the conversation fun and flirty and even getting to a sexual level but almost every girl wants to date me and doesn’t want anything casual (even after we’ve had casual sex already).
I’m always upfront about what I’m looking for from the beginning as I don’t want to lead anyone in or hurt anybody but I feel like I’m running into this wall over and over again.
Any advice on how I condition the girls to keeping things casual or any videos I can check out?
Thanks for the help, love you guys, let’s do this!
3 months ago – I recently broke up with my gf and my friend told me her friend had a crush on me so we we all go out to the bars and I make a k-close on her and we dance together the whole night. The following couple days we go on a few dates that went well but no sex but we do make out. She says she’ll text me the next time she is free and wants to go out. Few days pass by she still hasn’t texted me and I reach out her saying I had a good time with her and that I’d like to see her again. She said I do too but I see us better as friends. A Month later we go out to the bars and I see her there while I’m talking to another girl, she comes up to me and hugs me and I ask her how she’s been. And she was like “wow I didn’t think a cute guy like you would be talking to me rn” and then we danced the whole night while she keeps holding my hand, and grind. She left impromptu because her friend got too drunk and I didn’t close. I leave to go back home because I’m in college and we snap over the break and flirt a little but not too much. Back in college now and We’ve hung out in our friend groups and flirt a little and still keep in touch. Do you think it’s worth me asking her to hangout one on one again in hopes of rekindling something or is this a lost cause?
Every time we hangout sober she’s kinda cold and doesn’t react well to my flirting but when’s she’s drunk she tends to be all over me
Background: I always have been very insecure, mostly because I never really had a boyfriend (I am 23 🙈)
However, lately I have been going out to some bars / clubs and I notice I get approached by a lot of guys. Last night it even got annoying, guy after guy was talking to me and I just wanted to dance haha. Also another guy came up to me and said something like you’re really beautiful but you don’t know it/are shy and that he found that sexy? lol
Does this mean anything, like do guys just approach every girl or only the ones they find attractive?
Sorry if this sounds like bragging, but it is a genuine question. I’m not used to getting attention
Hello, I met this girl 2 weeks ago but unfortunately she has a boyfriend, we hit it off and make out, before we leave I ask her for her number and we go on a couple of dates which go very well, but she feels bad about having a boyfriend.
At the end of the first date we go to my place and she makes me promise that I won t try to fuck her which I did. We make out for some hours and then she leaves.
A couple days later she comes back but that time I fingered her a bit but she stopped me very quickly because she felt guilty. We continue to text all day and out of the blue she stops responding. So the issue is that I am not sure why because she seemed to have a nice time so I don’t know if it s because she is not interested or because she feels bad about the boyfriend. I know that I should probably not text her but I want to see her again because she is one of the few people that I had so much fun with…