How can I improve my dm game?

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I know i know its better to meet women in person but its gonna be especially hard since it’s summer. Lately ive just been dming girls that live in my city that i dont really know or just texting girls i know in general. I think i might be too boring or something. Sometimes i get a girls number but then im left on delivered out of nowhere. Sometimes i just dont even know what to say first to even spark interest. Help?

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Girls Straight-Up roasting me

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First of all I’m not trying to brag, I feel like these facts are important for this community to understand the situation. I’m tall, muscular, and attractive.

Last night at a university party I was walking home afterwards with some girls I met. So these girls keep saying things to each other things like “Yea he’s hot but like he’s wearing a visor” (I was wearing a visor i think it looks good on me), and they said it just loud enough so I could hear them. And I playfully called out “I can hear you guys”.

These jabs and insults continued most of the way back and I knew it was some kind of test and I’ve experienced it before. Anyway, I never got upset, defensive, aggressive…etc. I just rolled with the punches and teased back a little too.

But we live in the same residence complex and I asked one of them (slightly isolated from the rest of the group) if they wanted to come to my room and got denied.

WHAT DID I DO WRONG?

and also how do I respond/react to girls insulting me as a test?

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Dallas tx

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Anyone from dallas tx wanna link up pick up some hoes in Deep Ellum ?

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Asked girl out and she said maybe?

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Girl asked me on Saturday if I would come there for a cup of coffee I told her come drink a beer with me and she said would be fun but too far away because it was late and we live like 50km apart and she doesnt have a car yet.

Today I asked her if the offer is still up and she said hmm why not and I asked if wednesday works for here and she said maybe and i said I’m not driving all the way to x place for a maybe 😂 and she said she knows she might have a course that day so she has to check and i replied alright and now no answer for 7 hours… Should I just wait and ask her tomorrow if she is coming or what should I do?

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What happend to tony solo?

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here is a backup youtube channel of all of his videos but he just dissapeard and i dont know why

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPysafRgMwkY31S8pJr-BMg

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Should I be here?

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I am 18 yo and have been lurking her for past few days and see that most of the people who post here are 20+ yo. So my question, should I be here? If no, when do I come back?

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Sitting Next to a Girl is Very Important (rather than across from her)

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So today I had my first Day 2 from a direct cold approach (I had some “dates” from cold approach before but it was more indirect). I stopped a girl on the street and I was like “Hey are you from this city? I just moved here and thought you looked really cute so I just had to talk with you… some small conversation and then… hey so I’m going to have to find a girlfriend now that I live here so how about you be my girlfriend and then you can show me around the city (cheeky smile)” So she laughs and is like “ok maybe we can be friends and then see” So I say we should meet up for coffee together and get her number and text her and set a date to meet up for coffee a week later.

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So I meet her at a coffee shop about a five minute walk from my place. As soon as she shows up I compliment her on her dress and tell her she looks very cute today (it was kinda obvious she dressed up for me). So I make my direct intent very obvious from the start. The problem with coffee shops though is that you end up sitting across from the girl rather than next to her. So I’m sitting across from her and I’m trying to do some physical things to “spike up the temperature” after a few minutes of conversation but it feels really hard with this table in between us.

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Like I’m talking about how you can read people’s “energy” by holding their hands and then I’m like let me see your hands and I hold both of her hands with my hands and look into her eyes and say I’m going to tell you about yourself. Then I tell her how I can tell that she is a good person, and how her friends rely on her, and how she is shy but has a hidden adventurous side, and how I think she is really cute, and how her hands are very cold so I’m going to hold her hands to keep them warm… but then the damm table is just too big so it doesn’t feel right to keep holding hands with her in that awkward position. Then after some more small talk I decide to shift back into escalating and compare hand sizes and then hold hands with her again across the table and after a few seconds feels awkward so have to break the physical connection.

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So at this point I know that I haven’t built enough physical comfort to ask her to hang out at my place yet so I’m like lets go for a walk in the park and I want to show her a spot with a really nice view of the ocean. So we walk to the park about five minutes in the opposite direction and I take her to a sort of quiet spot and tell her hey lets sit down on this bench and relax. So now I’m sitting next to her and start doing more hand holding things and now it feels perfectly natural. I put my arm around her and pull her close and I’m holding her hand while telling her I’m taking applications for girlfriends right now and would she like to apply? lol. So then I knew she had to leave by a certain time and my time was almost up so I tell her to close her eyes for a second and give her a kiss before she had to leave.

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Lesson of the day: Sitting next to a girl is important if you want to escalate physically. I’m pretty sure if I had sat next to her in the coffee shop I could have physically escalated and made her feel comfortable and then whispered in her ear about going to hang out at my place and watch a movie and she would have probably went for it, rather than taking her to a park where nothing much could really happen.

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I got a lot of good ideas from this video I was kinda trying to follow his method: [https://youtu.be/JEptbIHCfP0](https://youtu.be/JEptbIHCfP0)

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Your guys ideas and feedback in appreciated!

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