Girls Straight-Up roasting me

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First of all I’m not trying to brag, I feel like these facts are important for this community to understand the situation. I’m tall, muscular, and attractive.

Last night at a university party I was walking home afterwards with some girls I met. So these girls keep saying things to each other things like “Yea he’s hot but like he’s wearing a visor” (I was wearing a visor i think it looks good on me), and they said it just loud enough so I could hear them. And I playfully called out “I can hear you guys”.

These jabs and insults continued most of the way back and I knew it was some kind of test and I’ve experienced it before. Anyway, I never got upset, defensive, aggressive…etc. I just rolled with the punches and teased back a little too.

But we live in the same residence complex and I asked one of them (slightly isolated from the rest of the group) if they wanted to come to my room and got denied.

WHAT DID I DO WRONG?

and also how do I respond/react to girls insulting me as a test?

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What am i doing wrong? I feel like a blind man

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Okay I would never have thought I would ended up on Reddit talking about my dating life, but here we are.. This is not some sob-story about a guy with the most terrible life. Because I am well aware there are some poor souls who have it 100x worse than me. However, to me my situation feels hopeless and I feel like I keep entering the same cycle I cannot seem to crawl out myself alone. I need help

I’m a 26 year old man and I have never had a relationship in my life, while i’ve had sex with over 60 girls. Its clearly me thats in the wrong but I have no idea what i’m doing wrong. I feel like giving up my desire to have a girlfriend and never date any girl again in my whole life.

Okay so to sum up my life in regards to women real quick: I used to be a really shy kid when I was younger. At the age of 14, girls started to notice me. I am a decent looking person and at that age girls started to flirt with me. Being the shy kid I was, I always just assumed they were fucking with me so I never really played along. Even if I wanted, I had no clue how to go at it(like most people at that age). I lost my virginity around the age of 18, by pure chance. I got completely drunk at a party and I was kinda peer-pressured into going to sleep with this girl. She was really attractive to me, so needless to say I was happy we ended up having sex. Two years passed after that, being the same shy kid with no contact with women whatsoever.

At some point I was fed up with my whole situation, so I started looking into pickup books and videos. I started approaching random women in bars, cafés and later on in all kinds of public places, like trains or malls. Never would have thought, but it actually changed my life. I quickly started getting results, and this gave me a lot of confidence. Women would actually respond well (although the countless awkward rejections attributed a lot more to my growth as a person). I went on a lot of dates, lots of them. After a while, I figured out how to present myself in a more charismatic manner and became very skilled at getting these girls to sleep with me, usually within the same day. My ego shot trough the roof as I started viewing myself as some magician who mastered the art of picking up women. It was ridiculous. I slept with girls on a weekly basis, bragging with my mate (who i taught the same stuff) while we exchanged our ”tactics”. I treated women like objects, made them feel worthless, just to ”get back at them” for being the former shy kid I was.

But from the inside, it never really fulfilled me. I felt no connection with these girls, while a lot of them developed feelings for me (also a lot of them didnt, they just wanted a quick fuck as well). After sleeping with them I felt alone. I kept waiting for a girl who would actually made me feel in love. And after 2 years, I actually met a girl who I developed feelings for. It was the first girl in my life I slept with, who i actually loved. It wasnt two-sided. She just came out of a relationship, and told me from the beginning she wanted to take things ”slow”. I understood, I was just happy I could enjoy being with her while it lasted. At some point she dumped me for another guy she met and he became her boyfriend. This hurt me a lot, being left behind and spent months in my bed crying at the loss of her, although I quickly went back to my old routine of mindlessly fucking strangers.

The older I became, the more I realized how meaningless my dating behavior was. I started to slow down (a bit) on the dating, and waited for the right girl who I could actually develop feelings for. The same pattern kept repeating: I stopped dating random girls and waited for a special lady, this waiting would frustrate me as I would never encounter this special girl and I would revert back to my old self of having sex with random women. On the most rare occasions I would find a girl who would actually spark some interest and hope in me.

But here’s the catch, these girls would always end up rejecting me. It feels like I am cursed, I can date women, except the ones I feel for. This pattern has repeated around 8 times in a row now. I would meet a girl, realize how cool she is. We would date for a while, and then she would disappear. If there is karma, this sure is my payback to the same pain I created to all these other women.

Last week I dated a girl, we took it really slow (which is not common to me) and we went on a date. We had a great time, we kissed and did not have sex. When she left I already knew the same thing would happen. She would abandon me. And she did. I spent the whole evening crying. Not at the loss of this girl, but at the knowledge that the same pattern will happen again. I am done with dating any girl. I was done with all the meaningless sex a long time ago. But whenever I do find some meaning, it ends up abandoning me, leaving me empty. I have no idea how to break this pattern. I just want to have a relationship with a girl I can actually develop feelings for, treat her well and be myself around. If anyone could offer me some sincere advice I would love to hear it. I am desperate and feel hopeless right now, ready to give up dating girls alltogether.

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Macker looking for a wingman in Philly

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DM me I got balls of steel in terms of game. Would like to have a wingman.

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So I deleted my profile around 3 months ago yet it still shows up on google searches.

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When I google search for my profile username my profile still appears with a picture and description. Is there anyway to get your account fully deleted. Because this is pretty fucked up.

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