Rejection. a tale by ArthurPro11
As the title says, I’ll be going out with this girl that I met at my friends party. I’m fairly certain this is her first date too, and even though we agreed on this date, we still haven’t picked a time or location—though it’ll be around 5 (dinner time lol) any suggestions on what we should do? Also, I’m kinda nervous because the only time I saw this girl is when we were both drunk and making out in my friends bedroom (sadly it did not go further, because she had to go home). Just give me everything you know, on how to maximize this opportunity and what I should do and not do.
So a little input to start this long story me and 2 of my friends went to a frat party and my cousin is in the frat also we live an hour and a half away from that university. Also im DD so I’m sober asf.So here I’ll dive into the story
We were at the dance floor this is 40 minutes into the party and I just see her walk into the party and it felt like a movie everybody dancing and through the heads of all the peeps I just see her. I was so fond of her face and the way she was dressed and how she smoked outta of a vape pen but didnt try to act hella cool also how she didnt drink the whole night(not trying to sound like a creep but I noticed that). She really grabbed my attention which doesn’t happen very often cuz I cant find the girl that I want to invest my time with and get a good vibe from. But throughout the whole night I couldn’t get myself to talk to her even tho she got close to me on the dance floor(didnt grind on me and shit like that she just got close wit the group of friends she was wit). We did see eye a couple of nights on the dance floor and the times we passed by eachother.We also walked passed eachother in the hallway but I just couldn’t talk to her and I really wanted to. Also I dont have that much self confidence and and haven’t had a GF in a really long time and I know im not that ugly.
But anyway on Monday I texted my cousin saying “if the same people typically go the frat parties they have?” And he said “yea it’s mostly the same people that go”. So now I feel like going to every other party they have and try and find this girl.
How to prepare when If I do see her? and if I should really go to these parties? to see if I will see her again and actually talk to her this time