made a video to summarise the top 5 lessons in the book Models By Mark Manson.
**Link to the video:** [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hs0d7Da8ufo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hs0d7Da8ufo)
The tagline of the book is “how to attract women through honesty”.
I am always trying to improve these videos to provide as much value as possible so any suggestions on how I could do that would be really appreciated.
Also any book/podcast/youtube channel/general self improvement suggestions would be awesome too.
**I’ve also done summaries of the following books:**
* the power of intention
* deep work
* the magic of thinking big
* the alchemist
* the E-Myth revisited
* feel the fear and do it anyway
* the art of war
* the lean startup
* the hard thing about hard things
* crush it!
* delivering happiness
* the personal mba
* the $100 startup
* zero to one
* the compound effect
* the prince
* the slight edge
* who moved my cheese?
* the one thing
* the 6 pillars of self esttem
* 7 habits of highly effective people
* secrets of the millionaire mind
* thinking fast and slow
* the power of positive thinking
* think and grow rich
* how to win friends and influence people
* rich dad poor dad
* the subtle art of not giving a fuck
* models by mark manson
* the power of now
* 12 rules for life by jordan peterson
* the 10x rule
* the inside out revolution
* man’s search for meaning
* how to stop worrying and start living
* millionaire fastlane.
* and some others…
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Hello, to make a long story short I’m a guy who after a lot of forgetting and lost paperwork got retested and I have ADHD combined. I’m naturally extroverted and at the community college I go to and work at many people wave or stop to chat. People have told many times that I am smart “cept math fuck that”. And that it can make people feel bad. I try to be a good person and end ever convo with I hope it goes well or have a good day. But I have no true friends. It’s always been like this. I’ve questioned myself with others if I insult others accidentally and that’s when I get a no and the smart speech. Every time I get a girl’s number it ends up at a I just wanna be friends or no reply which I stop after 2 no responses. I’m a bigger guy stocky everyone assumes I played football as a linemen. I’m trying to work on it but the ADHD makes meal prep a bitch and the wild eating is always at night. And I’m not some white night or nice guy to try to get in some pants. I just genuinely want the best for people and I think maybe it throws people off. Idk what I should do. Any sage advice?
Since I’m studying in colombia and I still don’t have many friends, I went to a club alone. It was so crowded you couldn’t move at all without bumping into someone. I made my way to the back wall where I post up on a half wall and procrastinate approaching. I pretend to check my phone when I’m really freaking out about being in such a crowded venue. I start dancing and then make eye contact with a girl and then we start grinding (I learned how to start dancing with girls at the club the last time I went out so that wasn’t too hard). Tonights mission was to get a kiss close. There is a dude that is staring at me so I hold eye contact because I thought it was an alpha test but it turns out he was gay. I found out when I was grinding with the girl and then he starts grinding on her from behind and tries to pull me in closer. A bit wired but whatever. The girl asks how old I am so I lie and say 25 (I’m 19) because she seems about that age. She tells me she is 30. We keep dancing but then she leaves abruptly. I think its because I didn’t start making out with her.
I try approaching other girls but I’m in a wired headspace now so I get rejected. Since I’m alone I wander to another group of friends and start dancing by some of the girls so I can gauge which are interested. I start dancing with another and then escalate to grabbing her ass. We dance for a while and I was waiting for the right time to kiss close but it never came. She tells me she has to go to her friends birthday party somewhere else so I pull her close and we kiss and say bye. I also told her I was 25 because she was 24 and actually works at the University I attend in Colombia.
I try to approach other girls but get rejected a few more times. Then I start dancing with a girl who eventually asks me to buy her a beer. I say I don’t drink and then she ignores me so I walk away haha.
Since the club had an expensive cover there weren’t many people my age so next time I will go somewhere cheaper so other college students will be there. I think that was a hindrance on my success. Plus there were just a lot of old people. I am happy with my results tonight and in a month I will be able to consistently and easily get kiss closes!
So I started college this year and so far I haven’t had much success with women. I thought college would be different, but it’s the same as always. I’m at a loss. I’ve tried joining some clubs but haven’t met anybody. Nobody really talks in class. I’m not even sure where the parties are since my school is in a weird environment.
What should I do? Not to toot my own horn but I’ve been told that I’m pretty attractive and have a good personality. A lot of women seem surprised when I tell them with my lack of success with women. Yet when I go out, I never get approached and no women ever seem interested in me.
3 months ago – I recently broke up with my gf and my friend told me her friend had a crush on me so we we all go out to the bars and I make a k-close on her and we dance together the whole night. The following couple days we go on a few dates that went well but no sex but we do make out. She says she’ll text me the next time she is free and wants to go out. Few days pass by she still hasn’t texted me and I reach out her saying I had a good time with her and that I’d like to see her again. She said I do too but I see us better as friends. A Month later we go out to the bars and I see her there while I’m talking to another girl, she comes up to me and hugs me and I ask her how she’s been. And she was like “wow I didn’t think a cute guy like you would be talking to me rn” and then we danced the whole night while she keeps holding my hand, and grind. She left impromptu because her friend got too drunk and I didn’t close. I leave to go back home because I’m in college and we snap over the break and flirt a little but not too much. Back in college now and We’ve hung out in our friend groups and flirt a little and still keep in touch. Do you think it’s worth me asking her to hangout one on one again in hopes of rekindling something or is this a lost cause?
Every time we hangout sober she’s kinda cold and doesn’t react well to my flirting but when’s she’s drunk she tends to be all over me
My friend already did that, but at the time I didn’t really feel like I wanted to start anything.
And now I regret not taking the chance, so I want to ask her do it again for me. A month after setting me up with this chick, the friend said how the girl is still interested, so there’s still a chance she might be.
Only problem is that I might appear very beta if I do it, essentially I’ll have to “sacrifice my pride”.
So guys , I’ve been taking some hobby classes during the week and one of these days I saw an extremely cute girl giving me strong eye contact in the corridor (her class gets over right before mine starts,I usually go a bit early) This has happened a couple of times. However she is always with her friends so how am I supposed to go about this?