How to Attract Women Through Honesty – Ideas from Mark Manson


made a video to summarise the top 5 lessons in the book Models By Mark Manson.

**Link to the video:** [](

The tagline of the book is “how to attract women through honesty”.

I am always trying to improve these videos to provide as much value as possible so any suggestions on how I could do that would be really appreciated.

Also any book/podcast/youtube channel/general self improvement suggestions would be awesome too.


**I’ve also done summaries of the following books:**

* the power of intention
* deep work
* the magic of thinking big
* the alchemist
* blink
* the E-Myth revisited
* feel the fear and do it anyway
* mindset
* the art of war
* the lean startup
* the hard thing about hard things
* crush it!
* delivering happiness
* the personal mba
* the $100 startup
* zero to one
* grit
* the compound effect
* the prince
* the slight edge
* meditations
* who moved my cheese?
* the one thing
* the 6 pillars of self esttem
* 7 habits of highly effective people
* secrets of the millionaire mind
* thinking fast and slow
* the power of positive thinking
* think and grow rich
* how to win friends and influence people
* rich dad poor dad
* the subtle art of not giving a fuck
* models by mark manson
* the power of now
* 12 rules for life by jordan peterson
* the 10x rule
* the inside out revolution
* man’s search for meaning
* how to stop worrying and start living
* millionaire fastlane.
* and some others…

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It sucks when you are confident someday and chicken shit an other day


I’ve been studying seduction for about a year now. I’m a 38 year old man, decent looking, in shape, I dress well, I have a career and money is not a issue for me. I know that I have what it takes for a woman to consider going out on a date with me, yet I feel like the more I learn about the science seduction and attraction the more dumb I get at it in the real world. Some days I’m confident and some days I freeze like a chicken.

Like today I went on a mission to open at least 3 girls during the day, I went to the mall and I bailed opening any so I moved to a 2nd location. On the second location I opened a very cute girl and I could tell that she seemed surprised and happy that I approached her. Yet I started to get nervous about what to say, the little voice in my head that normally comes out to sabotage me when I open a girl started talking to me saying things like “everybody is looking at you, you should be nervous” ” she wants to leave” . She told me that she was going to meet her friend, which is a good sign as I know that if she wanted to get rid of me, she would have said “I’m going to meet my boyfriend” yet I bailed like little chihuahua and instead of asking for her number, “I said it nice to meet you!” fuck I hate myself by just thinking about this. I live in Vancouver where there are attractive singe women everywhere you look, yet I’ve been without a gf for 2 years which adds up to the frustration.


Do you guys also feel like the more you read and know about seduction and attraction, the more you screw things up in the real word? Do you have a technique to shut off that little shit voice in your head that makes you over think and tells you and that she wants to leave you, even though you know that she likes you?




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If you want to figure out what a good and bad date looks watch Dating Around on Netflix


TL;DR: Watch the show and I mean don’t just watch, but analyze it. Look at body language and tonality. Try to guess who who likes who and who and who you would like. Try to indentify who are most like in that episode and who you want to be in the future.

I just watched Dating Around on Netflix. At first I thought it would be overly dramatic and dumb like most reality tv shows like the Bachelor/Bachelorette. However, it seems quite genuine.

If you analyze their body expressions and tonality you can easily tell who are the attractive dates and who is not. I’m not even looking at the superficial here, a lot of these people are good looking, but look beyond that!

In this show one person goes on similar dates with several other people of their preference. Immediately after they introduce and start talking, try to identify how everyone carries themselves and the vibes they give off. Some people I read right away. I noticed one guy was a condescending, confrontational, and insensitive ass. I thought one woman was crazy, but endearing. I found one woman to be bossy. I noticed these immediately when this person said hi and a few more words. During the date one can recognize when the other person is smiling, making eye contact, touching when they liked each other. If they didn’t, you can see and hear snide remarks (don’t get confused with teasing), uncomfortableness, and trying to be nice but get the date over with, etc. Try to guess who likes one person or another. You may even be surprised at who gets picked for a second date.

Also if you haven’t been on many dates, this is a good look into what good and bad dates are for girls and guys. You may even identify with some of the people! Also look at who you like if you were dating them and **NOT just for LOOKS but PERSONALITY**. Think about the dates from the other perspective too. If you see major red flags in guys you identify with then start making changes! Look out for red flags such as neediness, bossiness, condescension, snappiness, etc. If you find yourself not smiling on dates when you like the girl then remember to smile!

For me I have neediness and forgetting to smile and other IOIs. Both due to depression and anxiety. However, I am going back on meds and therapy to work on this. Last week I slipped down a dark hole last weekend but oh well, shit happens. I finally love and accept who I am but I will not let anxiety and depression control me. Since then I’ve skyrocketed back to being happier than ever after getting support, reaching out and having many epiphanies.

Remember to love yourself and be confident in who you are. Don’t wear masks and screen out girls quickly. Stop thinking “I hope they like me” and start saying “I like myself but now is she good enough for me”. Also don’t chase, if she interested and confident herself she’ll make time for you.


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OlderBi MWM Looking To Reconnect (wla)


I was older and you were younger. You used to come over to my house on occasion for morning coffee, adult conversation, and compelling interaction. Suddenly you were gone. I would love to reconnect with you, or perhaps one of your friends?

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