I haven’t really tried to game anyone in a really long time but I figured this party I’m going to be a great opportunity to man up finally and do it. I don’t have any particular goal of how I would want to end the night, but I want to try to go as far as I. I heard this party is going to be pretty big and it’d be super helpful to hear what kind of advice everyone could share. I don’t really know the vibe when it comes to women at frat parties so anything helps!
Ok, I do get the ***occasional*** reply, but for the amount of messages I send out, it’s essentially non-existent. And for those occasional replies, they stop replying after a few messages and I don’t understand what I did wrong.
Compare this to OkCupid, where I actually get a decent response rate from my matches (admittedly most of my matches come from women in other countries, sadly) and of the ones who respond, maybe 75% of them I add on WhatsApp. I’ve also been on dates with 3 women in real life from OkCupid. 0 from POF – not even come close to organising a date from POF, as a matter of fact.
I message a range of different women. I never ask for sex, I usually comment on something they said on their profile or if their photos are interesting, I’ll comment on those. But my reply rate is almost non-existent and I can’t work out what I’m doing wrong. My profile on OkCupid and POF are identical, yet there is such a vast difference in my success rate between the 2 sites.
Someone told me POF is full of bots. Some people say it’s just a terrible site filled with 3/10 women who are aiming for 10/10 men. I’m not sure what it is. Can anyone shed some light on this?