So last night I was feeling really down about this girl. My one chick friend texted me, asking if I want to meet her and her friends up at a club. I wasn’t feeling it at all, but I took some kratom and thought fuck it! Let’s fucken go, tonight might be my night.
I haven’t hungout with this girl in years, so I was a bit apprehensive but she seen me, gave me a big hug and introduced me to her *hot friends* I was like fuckkkk! I’m glad I came out! One of her friends, a Spanish girl..was really into me, my chick friend kept telling her girl how cool I am. So I was with her the entire night..I made sure I wasn’t too eager but at the same time I did alot of kino and teased the shit out of her, she thought I was hilarious. I kept making sexual jokes towards her and she was blushing and laughing. Her friend had this long black stick thing that looked like a whip, so I made a move to grab it and told her to turn around so I can spank her, but the fuxken stick broke lol. It felt so good though, to act out in confidence like that. I was doing everything I felt would amuse me in the moment, I wasn’t really trying to make her laugh. I think that is key on a night out, live for yourself, don’t worry about impressing a chick.
Everytime I distanced myself from her in the club, she came and grabbed my hand and took me with her..we held hands the entire night. I could have made a move, but I talked myself out of it! Fuck. She was mentioning how she wants to hang more with me and gave me her number without me even asking for it. BUT before she gave me her number, she told me she had a boyfriend and that he’s rich and spent 1k on her and her friends before, that I should meet him..wtf lmao. She wasn’t acting like she had a dude, so it left me confused. I’m thinking she isn’t that commited? Girls are so confusing dudes. Should I wait for her to text me or what? I need advice.
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**Question to the group:**
Game is about talk talk talk. It’s about coming up with good/interesting things to say to push her buttons, get her to qualify herself to you with a little bit of normal conversation thrown in. Dont need her, but your still around her pushing her buttons and seeing if she lives up to your standards. “I think I can take your number then…I guess”.
Relationship/How-to-make-friends books will talk about listening, eye contact, being present, letting the other person talk about themselves more, asking questions. You can even take this into the tantra side of connection which (i suppose assumes you have a partner) focus on connection without words, breath, eyes..etc
What’s the difference? Why is this advice so different?
**Brief Background that prompted the question:**
I just got out of a bootcamp with Todd (formally from RSD). We did all kinds of qualification exercises, game the wall (walls don’t talk back, and you have to spew content/convo), teasing each other and practicing comebacks..and more. I fail pretty hard at this. I have no wit to speak of, and more take the listener role in relation with others. I suppose that explains why I’m 35, been with few women. Something I’d drastically like to change.
Watching some of the quicker/better guys was awesome. I’ve seen them get rejected, and have success on the same night. They were doing/saying things I’d never dream of or even think of. I’ve seen them turn a women throwing shit-tests at them right and left into FWBs/Dates. Their ability to generate emotional content/spike her emotions was awesome to see, but now I feel bad about myself that I cant do that. What I can observe, is that they weren’t afraid of asking people for numbers/dates/sex multiple times a night and I havn’t asked anyone in like a year (with the exception of that week—all nos).
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Opinions on this video? I think its better to focus on Day Game imo.
Video link: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=024rnPJNttQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=024rnPJNttQ)
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So basically I’m pretty good at talking, telling stories making people laugh and basically socialising in general. But when it comes to making a move or sexualizing the conversation my balls shrink. It is the most nerve wrecking thing ever.
How do I ask a girl out?
How do I flirt?
And how to add spice to a platonic logical conversation?
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She’ll Text Me, She’ll Text Me Not
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