I have a lot more fun dancing when I know the songs and I only know like 1/4th of them. The clubs I go to near my college have a lot music I don’t know. The DJs play stuff from Living on a prayer to Mo Bamba. Before going regularly I assumed it would all be recent stuff but it’s deifntiely a mix of recent and older stuff, mostly hip hop. Any good playlists I can listen to so I can recognize more of the songs?
I think that big problem of mine with women is being fully direct about my intentions. As I thought for a large amount of time is that the right thing to do is to hide your intentions, give clues and flirt but not to go and say “I WANT YOU”, to not make her feel that she won you and you are in her Pocket. At the last time I am starting to understand that showing your intentions from the first place will get you better results, so I want to understand the whole thing and the right approach about showing intentions, when just saying I WANT YOU will be good and in which time it will not fit and make her want distance. (How fast? How Its done in a club ? How its done with a girl you start to know?)
I was there solo. I was standing near the entrance and enjoying my bucket of beer. I saw you behind me as you were walking by and had a pretty dress on. You took a seat at the table to right of where I was standing. I think you didn’t say hi because …
One of my buddies asked me to critique his video on approach anxiety and it’s actually really good. I learned a lot about how to overcome it when it creeps up on me randomly etc so I thought I’d give back a little bit and post it here for you guys!!