How to open in bars


So I haven’t really bar gamed in a while, but was invited to go with a friend of mine to see some of his fellow musicians perform at a bar in Miami. I’ve done so much direct daygame, but I know doing the, hey I know this is random but, thing won’t really work in a bar?

My plan is just to be super present and have a good time. But if a girl catches my eye, how should I approach? I’m thinking of just looking at her until we lock eyes and just wait for an AI approach invitation, a smile or something, then just go and introduce myself.

Any advice?


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Why do girls choose other guys over me?


Hey Seddit,

I’ve been developing myself for along time. I have improved my appearance (dress, fitness), am well read and have studied game for a while. I can talk well and do not lack in confidence. And yet girls I know in real life, consistently choose other guys over me. I don’t know why – but I do know that the only common factor between all these different girls is myself.

Recent example, I moved to a new city, new school with entirely new people. I liked this one girl in my class (she is thiccc) and asked her out for drinks, but she wasn’t much interested at the time. I have made some moves, but she wasn’t particularly enthusiastic. Instead, she replied to my friends story on insta (no girls ever reply to mine 😭) saying its rude that she didn’t receive an invite to the dinner in a joking way (she’s away to another city right now). He was asking me for advice on what to respond. Of course he’s my friend and I will help him (although I like the girl too – its not his fault she chose him over me, I wouldn’t jeopardize a male friendship over a girl) but it just makes me sad deep inside that girls never do this to me.

This same friend also has another girl interested in him from our class (she was messaging him or hugging him tightly in the club when we went as a class), but he isn’t taller or more stronger than me or more well read. He is richer though and has the newest ipad, maybe that’s why? Again, I would never jeopardize a friendship with a male over a girl, but I want to understand what he does.

I post stories frequently and see that many girls see them (some haven’t missed a single story of mine) but none of them ever reply. I’ve posted stories of me travelling the world, in the gym, exploring different places, etc – and have never had any engagement from females – only my guy friends will write to me.

Maybe I am coming off the wrong way? I have no idea.

All I know, is that I want to have girls messaging me and choosing me!

Please advise.

PS. Never had a girlfriend (I’m 26) and never hooked up with a girl that was not from the internet (dating apps). Closest I got to a girlfriend was when I was on a trip to South America, travelled around with a girl I met there for a bit and she showed me affection – but we didn’t even speak the same language and I left back home soon.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me and its killing my confidence (I actively work to resist this but still sometimes one feels discouraged when everything he tries is a fail).

PPS. I have considered asking people I know irl about my vibe, but have been afraid to do it – a man admitting he has problems with girls would make other men think worse of me. I have asked some people that know me personally, they said everything is fine or that ‘I am who I am and to own it’. But that is an unsatisfying answer. Someone else said that I sometimes sexualize too much or take jokes too far or that I am blunt.


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What happend to tony solo?


here is a backup youtube channel of all of his videos but he just dissapeard and i dont know why


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How does one get girls in high school?


I’m 16 years old, I’m in 10th grade at a small high school (like 450 people). The last year and a half I haven’t really been looking to get girls, but I’m tired of being lonely so here I am. How do I get girls in high school?


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How can I hookup with someone the same day, but find them somewhere other than the club?


Let’s say I’m able get a phone number from a girl at the gym, how do I sleep with her the same day?


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How to be a man tip #1: Sweat at least once everyday


Gentleman I am back after a trip out to my cousins farm in which I drank, hunted, repaired machinery, and wrangled animals out in the Australian sun. During my time off the grid I reflected on what makes a man and out in the sun it was 45°C (113° Fahrenheit). In this time I sweated a lot but it felt good so *I reached a conclusion: a man should break a sweat which drips off his face and has to be wiped from his brow at least once a day.*

Why do I say this? *To sweat a man must do one of two things either he must work hard physically or he must do something that fills him with fear.* As a man you can know you’re pushing yourself mentally or physically by how much you sweat. Everyday you must break a sweat: work out, talk to a stunning woman, get into a confrontation where you are filled with fear, repair your house/car, do a sport etc.

Other benefits include those sweet endorphins and happy neurotransmitters, you’ll look better physically for the exercise, you will live longer and be healthier, oh and getting stonger means you’ll be better in bed.

**Basically sweating is the simplest indicator of whether you’re doing shit with yourself, most likely manly shit. There are many benefits to breaking a sweat. Just don’t forget my last post – make sure you shower afterwards!**


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