Pick something really fucking embarrassing for me to say

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So I’m doing this program called fearless and you’re supposed to make a fake phone car in front of a large group of people and embarrass the fuck out of yourself. Max picked coming out of the closet to his parents but I think that would make me laugh too much. I was thinking I could do one where I act like I got cheated on and I am the ultimate cuck. Will pick the highest rated comment.

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Should I (f/26) reach out? Or is the ball in his (m/29) court?

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Him and I have known each other for 5 years. We tried dating 5 months ago. It lasted 5 months but he had a breakdown and felt he needed to end things. He is nearly 30 and has never been in a relationship.

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His Dad is very sick and he felt like he needed to be there for him. He also said he that he didn’t know what was wrong with him, but he just can’t let anyone in. He cried and told me he really liked hanging out with me but felt he couldn’t give me enough. So we ended it.

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6 months later, I ran into him at a local gig. His face lit up and he said he was so happy to see me. He wouldn’t leave my side. We danced, made out and held hands. It felt like we were dating again. At the end of the night, he asked me if he could text me. I said yes. He also asked if we could grab dinner sometime. I said sure.

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The next day, we made dinner plans. He ended up having to cancel because of work. He asked if we could try again next week. I said sure, no problem.

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It’s been 2 weeks and neither of us reached out to each other. We still haven’t gone on our dinner date. Was the ball in his court? I’m not sure where to go from here. Was I suppose to follow up and ask him when he was free, after he asked me if we could reschedule? Would it be weird to text him now and say, “Hey, what happened to our dinner plans?”

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Im very confused.

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TLDR: We dated for 5 months. He broke-down and cried because he felt he couldn’t handle it and give me enough. We ended it. 6 months later I ran into him at a gig. He said he was happy to see me. We danced, held hands, made out. He asked me if he could text me and if we could grab dinner. I said sure. We made plans. He bailed but asked if we could reschedule for the following week. I said sure. Its been 2 weeks and neither of us reached out to each other and asked when each other was free. Was the ball in my court? or did he get cold feet and not want to ignite the flame again? He was super happy to see me, so I’m very confused. Would it be weird to text him 2 weeks later and say, “hey, what happened to our dinner plans?”

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What am i doing wrong? I feel like a blind man

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Okay I would never have thought I would ended up on Reddit talking about my dating life, but here we are.. This is not some sob-story about a guy with the most terrible life. Because I am well aware there are some poor souls who have it 100x worse than me. However, to me my situation feels hopeless and I feel like I keep entering the same cycle I cannot seem to crawl out myself alone. I need help

I’m a 26 year old man and I have never had a relationship in my life, while i’ve had sex with over 60 girls. Its clearly me thats in the wrong but I have no idea what i’m doing wrong. I feel like giving up my desire to have a girlfriend and never date any girl again in my whole life.

Okay so to sum up my life in regards to women real quick: I used to be a really shy kid when I was younger. At the age of 14, girls started to notice me. I am a decent looking person and at that age girls started to flirt with me. Being the shy kid I was, I always just assumed they were fucking with me so I never really played along. Even if I wanted, I had no clue how to go at it(like most people at that age). I lost my virginity around the age of 18, by pure chance. I got completely drunk at a party and I was kinda peer-pressured into going to sleep with this girl. She was really attractive to me, so needless to say I was happy we ended up having sex. Two years passed after that, being the same shy kid with no contact with women whatsoever.

At some point I was fed up with my whole situation, so I started looking into pickup books and videos. I started approaching random women in bars, cafés and later on in all kinds of public places, like trains or malls. Never would have thought, but it actually changed my life. I quickly started getting results, and this gave me a lot of confidence. Women would actually respond well (although the countless awkward rejections attributed a lot more to my growth as a person). I went on a lot of dates, lots of them. After a while, I figured out how to present myself in a more charismatic manner and became very skilled at getting these girls to sleep with me, usually within the same day. My ego shot trough the roof as I started viewing myself as some magician who mastered the art of picking up women. It was ridiculous. I slept with girls on a weekly basis, bragging with my mate (who i taught the same stuff) while we exchanged our ”tactics”. I treated women like objects, made them feel worthless, just to ”get back at them” for being the former shy kid I was.

But from the inside, it never really fulfilled me. I felt no connection with these girls, while a lot of them developed feelings for me (also a lot of them didnt, they just wanted a quick fuck as well). After sleeping with them I felt alone. I kept waiting for a girl who would actually made me feel in love. And after 2 years, I actually met a girl who I developed feelings for. It was the first girl in my life I slept with, who i actually loved. It wasnt two-sided. She just came out of a relationship, and told me from the beginning she wanted to take things ”slow”. I understood, I was just happy I could enjoy being with her while it lasted. At some point she dumped me for another guy she met and he became her boyfriend. This hurt me a lot, being left behind and spent months in my bed crying at the loss of her, although I quickly went back to my old routine of mindlessly fucking strangers.

The older I became, the more I realized how meaningless my dating behavior was. I started to slow down (a bit) on the dating, and waited for the right girl who I could actually develop feelings for. The same pattern kept repeating: I stopped dating random girls and waited for a special lady, this waiting would frustrate me as I would never encounter this special girl and I would revert back to my old self of having sex with random women. On the most rare occasions I would find a girl who would actually spark some interest and hope in me.

But here’s the catch, these girls would always end up rejecting me. It feels like I am cursed, I can date women, except the ones I feel for. This pattern has repeated around 8 times in a row now. I would meet a girl, realize how cool she is. We would date for a while, and then she would disappear. If there is karma, this sure is my payback to the same pain I created to all these other women.

Last week I dated a girl, we took it really slow (which is not common to me) and we went on a date. We had a great time, we kissed and did not have sex. When she left I already knew the same thing would happen. She would abandon me. And she did. I spent the whole evening crying. Not at the loss of this girl, but at the knowledge that the same pattern will happen again. I am done with dating any girl. I was done with all the meaningless sex a long time ago. But whenever I do find some meaning, it ends up abandoning me, leaving me empty. I have no idea how to break this pattern. I just want to have a relationship with a girl I can actually develop feelings for, treat her well and be myself around. If anyone could offer me some sincere advice I would love to hear it. I am desperate and feel hopeless right now, ready to give up dating girls alltogether.

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Follow up to hook up one week later

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Picked up this girl on the bus to the city I live in and asked her to hang the next day, we bung yeuh, and she went back home to the state we’re both originally from. It’s been a week, we had a couple texts after she left my place that night (she initiated) and it’s been all quiet on the western front since then.

I want to continue seeing this girl whether that means banging her or seeing what else comes, so I’m asking for advice on whether I should hit her up or leave it be until we’re both in the same place. Thanks!

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anyone else hit a wall during the nights out?

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When going out drinking I always start the night out strong, games on point and everyone wants to speak to me. but just over midway through the night i start losing energy and my game goes out the window.

People notice im starting to drag the vibe down a bit and i start to feel like i lose progress with the women i was doing really good with. its still way early to head home around this point to so i kinda just have to wait it out. anyone else get this way or got advice on what to do here?

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What’s the difference between Negging and Push/Pull technique?

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Is there a difference? I hear positive remarks about pushpull but yet negging is looked down upon. However, I don’t know the difference.

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How is an average guy supposed to get laid? [21M Virgin]

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I’m a 21 year old college student, never been on a date or done anything with a girl. I’ve legit never met a girl who was interested.

I’ve tried a plethora of dating apps such as Bumble and OkCupid but I literally got 0 matches and replies. I’ve been clubbing numeorus times but the girls are always either with someone or not interested. I’ve also tried talking to girls at college but same story, no mutual interest.

Any helpful advice would be much appreciated.

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