Now doing this correctly can be difficult so I will break this down so that you can pull her away from her friends and into your arms. Now I prefer to do this from a sitting position but you could put a fresh twist on this by doing it whilst standing.
**Step 1: Consider the logistics**
The number one mistake that sabotages a guys success when inviting a girl to sit with you is neglecting to ensure there is a vacant spot for her to sit or stand comfortably with him.
Until you get the hang of this before calling her over ask yourself the following questions: *Is there space for her to join me? Can she get to me, perhaps I failed to notice she is sitting in the back of a cop car and is otherwised indisposed? Will she want to join me, am I standing in the middle of the road or the mens bathroom?* If you are still confused don’t worry the subtlies I am describe will come with time.
**Step 2. Get her attention**
Assuming the logistics are good you next need to get her attention. You have to walk the tightrope that is being confident without being offensive. To help you calibrate this I have given you some example do’s and dont’s to clarify:
**DO**: make eyecontact, give her wave, get her friends attention and signal that you want her friends attention, if she gives a slightly confused look give her a slow nod that says “yes you…” **DO NOT**: expose your erect penis, throw a series of increasingly heavy objects at her until she responds, yell “oh you the sloot with the rockin tits… yeah the one causing me to regret wearing pants with a zipper”
**Step 3. Call her over**
Now that she is looking at you, you need to convince her to come see what you want. *Here is a clue: if she is still looking and waiting on you at this point she has already decided she finds you attractive enough to engage with you*
By now she is looking at you first you have to somehow communicate to her that you want her to come over and join you. *If only there was some kind of a way to signal this over a distance… in this case screaming across the room wont work* I’ve got it! **wave her over with your hand** do this with the facial expression of a labrador that just found a kitten and the humans need to see this right now, they’ll be so proud of you, oh come on come on please indulge me.
**Step 4. Yeah there is another part**
*Oh no I did it but she is just looking at me, this is so awkward. Did I not do it properly? She probably thinks this is so sad. Oh god she just pointed me out and is talking to her friend they probably think I am such a creep…* right do me a favour…
**JUST REMEMBER IF SHE IS LOOKING AT YOU THEN SHE IS STILL OPEN TO IT** now you are probably thinking to yourself what else can I do? **IF SHE IS HESITATES JUST REAFFIRM YOU WANT HER TO COME OVER** Just think about it man, how often are you with friends when someone has an idea and people say no. So that friend goes “come on… it’ll be fun… do it… you know you want to… pleeeeaaaasssseeee” and eventually people cave, cause secretly all of you wanna do dumb shit. Or you don’t but it ends up being kinda fun.
**Tl;Dr:** Guys it isn’t that hard to invite a girl to join you, you have to be a fair idiot to mess it up. Just get her attention, wave her over, then say pretty please. You should be giving off vibes that say “hey you. Yes you… come here it is cool… yes i want you to come here, pretty please indulge me i want your company” best of luck with it lads.
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