I saw this girl in gym , she keeps on checking on me everyday. I kind a think it would be creepy to talk to a girl in gym
How to talk to a girl in public transit ?
We’ve met a party in late 2018, hit off pretty damn well, but the circumstances led to me not asking for her number. After a month of overthinking (I liked her, but was it weird to contact her a month after the party?), I finally got the balls to contact her again and she quickly followed my lead (she proposed a drink after two days of talking).
We’ve been seeing each other for around three weeks, and we have seen each other quite a few times in these weeks. I’m fairly convinced that she does like me (she responds to my touches, she texts me all the time and she always was the one to ask me out, there’s also a lot of banter and push/pull between us).
The only issue is that when we see each other, it never escalates. Besides a few touches here and there, I find myself unable to initiate any sexual tension.
I think I am so used to going for the girls who show me a lot of interest that I don’t even know how to make my interest clear. Usually, I get with girls who show me right away that they like me and I’m 95% sure anything I’ll do or say will work with them. Here, I’m in this position where I’m convinced she does like me, but she’s not the type of girl to show it (she had one long-term boyfriend and I’m used to more promiscuous women).
Anyways, we’re seeing each other on Friday night and I feel like this is the night too many. I want to make it clear tomorrow that I don’t want to be her friend. I am afraid to keep seeing her without anything happening so much that she’ll either drop her interest in me, or she will start thinking that I don’t like her back. How should I go so our night escalates? I just want to see her again without having to think of all this and be sure we want each other sexually.
I have multiple girlfriends I don’t sleep with. Without going into detail thats mostly because I am not 100% attractive or I just enjoy the benefits to much: getting introduced to their friends, social proof, relationship talks
But I noticed, that after a period of time the friendship gets more distant (after 6-12 month). Plans are harder to make, some odd behaviour or comments.
That is quite sad in my opinion since I enjoy the friendship. Sometimes I think they catch feelings which I dont want to return or they find a boyfriend and the friendship gets downsized.
How do you guys keep friendship interesting and all partys nearly equally invested without binding the girl through love or sex?
I’ve just had an ephiphany that most girls are bad little girls and they want someone who can provide for them and be submissive to.
For most of my life, I’ve been a boy not a man. I’ve slowly been aging and becoming more or a man and deliberately killing the boy I have been. I’ve been eradicating submissive behavior and I’m now alpha and dominant. I realize that girls enjoy me more when I do so.
One thing I find tough to eradicate is my weight. I’ve always been quite skinny and I actually enjoy it. I’m 6 foot and weigh 140lbs and I feel girls find this as a big buzz kill. The problem is I’m very content with this weight and I don’t want to have to change just to get more girls. I’m okay with finding a girl who is okay with my weight.
My question is simple – how do I become more masculine while not having to add on extra weight? How do I make girls feel like their little and submissive to me when I refuse to put on extra lbs to make myself bigger. I enjoy my agileness of being at my weight now. I can’t explain why but I feel I would be hindering my life if I put on more weight personally. I’m looking for another answer.
Are there examples or qualities of men who weigh less but are still masculine and still exude a lot of power that make women want to be submissive towards? So far, I’ve tried to highlight other qualities about me like my height or my mental attitude but I’m wondering if dressing a certain way will get me more likes on apps like tinder.