Pmo to yall tips
I(M) got a crush (and she doesn’t know that I have a crush on her) and I’d really want her to be my gf. But the question is how do I propose. Like, what should I say?
If anything I learnt from movies, it was that when you are proposing someone to marry you, you say something similar to ‘Will you marry me?’, similarly, what to say when you want your crush to be your gf?
Hello, my debriefing of last night.I’m currently doing a study abroad program in Colombia and last night there was a bus party with all the international students. We basically took a bus to three different clubs and stayed at each club for about an hour. This is the second time I have ever been to a club so it was difficult to adjust.For the first two hours, I kept getting rejected when I tried to dance with girls and couldn’t figure out how to create attraction. The weekend prior I had a party at the pool in my housing complex where I tried to game one of the girls (my mistake here was only going after one when I should have gamed everyone). For the first part of the night I tried to game the same girl from last weekend but she basically didn’t even acknowledge my presence and when I tried to dance with her she gave a very hard no response. After that I kept getting more negative and reclusing myself but I remembered in one of Tylers podcasts he said eventually the pendulum will swing from negativity to extream positivity if you just keep trying so I wanted to reach that level because the first time I went to a club I didn’t stay long enough to be catapulted into positivity so I went home and had lots of negative thoughts telling me I should give up and accept that ill never be good at game or with women. I wasn’t going to let that happen again so kept approaching and trying to dance with girls often being rejected. It was when the girl I liked from last weekend kissed another guy right in front of me that I was catapulted into positivity. I just let go of all outcome dependence and told myself that I would keep approaching and getting rejected until I succeed.I always try to learn from guys with better game through the night so thank you to the two black guys who made a chode out of me through the night. They would dance over to a girl and get closer and with their dance moves make sure that she noticed them by doing a dance step in the girl’s direction. Then they would make eye contact and extend both hands to offer to dance. Then they would dance with the girl while holding her hands for a little and then pull the girl in close or spin her around and grind. I figured out how to do this by the end of the night but couldn’t figure out how to get a make out while dancing.I had one girl who was grinding on me and later came back to dance with me again but I didn’t know what to do next.Later in the night, I went to an after party at one of the girl’s houses where we played truth or dare. I said I liked one of the girls that obviously liked me because I felt like she would be easy to fuck to gain momentum and get better in bed since I’ve only slept with one girl and I didn’t last long. We played truth or dare until about four in the morning and when I was ready to go home I asked the girl if she was coming with me but she said no. Earlier on in the game, I was asked if we would fuck and I said Yeah and she was pleased about that so I’m sure it will happen soon.
That’s basically how my night went and I’m very happy with my success so far but I was wondering if I could get some advice:How do you get a makeout close on the dance floor after grinding or dancing intimately?How should I manage the girl who wouldn’t be my first choice to fuck? I would be interested in fucking some of her friends or doing a threesome.How do I stop negative thoughts when my night is going bad that tell me to end it, give up on trying to improve, telling me I’m a failure, and making me feel guilty for not wanting a relationship with my mother (she’s bipolar and toxic to be around)?