Im still a pussy

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So im out of town hanging with my buddy in Mississippi. Im from Pennsylvania and yet I cant seem to talk to the cute girls. I can talk to random people. But good looking girls I just clam up and can even approach. Can anyone help me with this. New Orleans tomorrow I need to get some balls.

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Cute black girl….I saw…

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Hi
are you the cute black girl I saw?
Please get back to me asap
and tell me where we met;)

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“Dont touch me!”

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Started talking to this girl 3 weeks ago at school. We’re always together and shes kind of handsy at times. The problem im having is she only wants to hang out anywhere but at school, and rarely texts me back. Im a bad texter anyway but i find it hard to increase touch/intimacy etc when im constantly around my friends with her in a public place.

To try to solve this ive been lightly touching her (not sexually) here and there.

Now to reiterate what i said earlier. She is very playfully touchy so i saw no issue. Today however i touched her leg for a split second and she yelled “donr touch me!” While laughing and i honestly couldnt tell if she was serious. I could be over thinking this but in light of the times i dont wanna read the signals wrong. Think she was fucking around?

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Lots of good signals of attraction in person and through text, then blows me off as soon as I ask her out

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I met a cool/very pretty Taiwanese girl at a meetup event today, we hit it off quite well. Lots of laughing/touching on her part, and she even came to find me and say goodbye before she left the place. We swapped numbers before then (she asked for my number, but I think she asked for several people’s numbers in the event so it doesn’t mean much). She also made a couple of suggestive comments like “You would be really popular among girls in Taiwan”.

I didn’t suggest meeting her again while we were in person, so I asked her out a few hours later via text. She basically blew me off straight away with a bad excuse, which was surprising given the amount of attraction I was getting off her in person. Here’s the message chain:

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>**Her:** Hey
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>**Me:** Hey Abigail! Was nice to meet you today, and glad you appreciated my accent πŸ˜‰
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>**Her**: It was my pleasure to meet you too. Yeah I really liked your accent and sense of humour. I’m really looking forward to seeing you next time πŸ‘
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>**Her:** This is the Chinese New Year event I was talking about, if you want more info just see here ___________.
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>**Me:** Looks good! You going?
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>**Her:** Nope I went to it last Tues. You should go though πŸ‘
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>**Me:** Oh then we need to find some other excuse to meet!
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>**Me:** There’s a Taiwanese place called _____ in ______ that I’m planning to check out next week. Want to come?
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>**Her:** πŸ˜†what a lovely excuse!
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>**Her**: Sorry JDillaLikesDonuts 😭. I planned to do some decorating for my room the next couple of weeks. No worries just leave it to me. I’ll find the “excuse” to ask you out
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>**Me:** You’re decorating your room every day for 2 weeks? πŸ˜‚ Okay looking forward to it

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Why would she seem so interested in person and through text, even message me first, then immediately proceed to block my attempt to ask her out? An obvious answer might be that I misread her, but through experience I think I’m generally quite good at picking up whether or not girls have that initial attraction to me.

Wondering if this is an obvious lost cause or whether I should hit her up again in a couple of weeks in the likely situation that she still hasn’t hit me up.

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Any actually legit infields?

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Seems pretty much every infield is accused of being fake, and a lot of these accusations come with proof. It makes sense too, they want to make money. If I were to try to make money I wouldnt mind cheating to make a video requiring 30 hours of work take 3 hours instead.

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I don’t want mystery method type of premade lines repeated over and over again. (Also the show was with actors, but i’ve seen it recommended here)

I dont want night club type of stuff.

Some people recommend RSD, but they don’t really seem to be legit. And even if they were- its just spammy stuff. Saying (really) weird things to girls until someone say yes.

Some recommend good looking loser – It’s also accused of being fake. And the guy genuinely seems like a loser

Some people recommend todd- He has a ugly girlfriend(Like most PUA seem to end up with). And he is waay too technical. I already overanalyse everything, it doesn’t help if I have 10 weird concepts i have to think about as well

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Im just looking for some regular normal guy footage. My main purpose is programming my brain to see flirting as normal behaviour. Studies show asocial shy children being shown footage of children being social and playing with each other makes them more social and likely to start conversation with children too. I believe this is how humans react to pretty much anything. But it don’t help if if we don’t believe what we see.

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What’s the difference between Negging and Push/Pull technique?

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Is there a difference? I hear positive remarks about pushpull but yet negging is looked down upon. However, I don’t know the difference.

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