[field report] my 1st five cold approaches! Can you help me review them?

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After reading only Tom Torero’s Beginner Guide To Daygame (I didn’t watch his YT movie) I deciced to try these things for myself. This is going to be a long post. But that’s because I want you to help me, so I can do better next time 😉 Enjoy!

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First approach happened near my campus. I noticed a girl with curly hair, with which I was writing my language exam. I saw her at the other side of the street, so I waited for her to go through pedestrain crossing. She didn’t notice me, walked past me and then I had a moment of anxiety, but I encouraged myself. Followed her a bit and then stopped her by wheeling in front of her (something what Tom Torero does). I did it nicely, because she stopped and I didn’t notice any sign of stress or fear. She took of headphones and I opened by saying:

“Hi, I know you from that language exam we were writing on friday week ago. That time you were talking with a friend, so when I saw you today I wanted to come and talk with you”

Then I said, that with those curly hair she could be a nice spanish girl, and it made her laugh. Later she told that she is in hurry and then I made a mistake, because I was occupied with what I will say next: she just asked “Facebook?”. I presumed she was asking, if I stalked her on FB or something, but it could be just an asking for just my facebook, so we could talk later. Well, I ignored it and told, that I thought she is an ukrainian girl, since in that language she was speaking with some friend before. She said, that she’s not ukrainian, but polish, and unfortunately I freezed out a bit. Instead of saying something like “wow, so how many languages do you speak well” or such I just said “polish? Aaa..” hahaha. She said, she really has to go, so I said bye and that’s the end 😛 

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2nd approach was at the shopping mall. Before it I made a quick warm-up, I asked some guy about directions and well, he was going in that direciton, so he walked me to the place I asked about and we had a convo. Then I joked a bit with two girls, who were giving away some brochures. I entered a mall and noticed a young looking girl in pink sweater, doing her homework. I looked at her, came up with an idea, what to say to her, and hesitated for like 2 minutes, well, because she looked “busy”. I quickly reminded myself feelings that I feel, when I miss the opportunity and when I come up and break my anxieties. That gave me a boost, so I came to her, and opened:

“Hi, I know it’s unusual to be chatted up by a stranger, but I thought you look sweet, so I came to you to talk a little”

She just smirked, said “okay”, so I sat by her and told about that sweater; that because of its pink colour I guess she’s kinda sensitive and such, because today some girls like to wear adidas trousers to seem tough (well, wtf, now, when I’m reading this, it sounds dumb haha). Of course I didn’t say it that smooth :d She didn’t make any statement, and rather focused on her homewok. So, I asked, if it’s a language course, she replied, that she’s learning english. I followed by saying, that I’d choose a different language, if I was in her place, since I got so fed up with it, that’s why I’ve picked spanish and I felt, that this reply was kinda bad. Well, still she didn’t give any attention, so I decides to give it a last question and then, when nothing changed, after few seconds I said it was nice to try talking to her and I just said goodbye.

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Feeling like I’m not enough

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How do you get rid of this feeling?

My self confidence is low because of feeling like I don’t have anything to give

Is this just social anxiety or is this a sign of other problems?

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Cold Approach Series #0 – Get This Before You Do ANYTHING In Life or Game

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Cold Approach Series #0 – Get This Before You Do ANYTHING In Life or Game


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We used to masturbate for each other… (Silver Lake)

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We met on here back when CL was not the shit show it is now, and used to masturbate for each other. Everywhere we could. I think about it so much still, I wonder if you do to?
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Sex On The First Date – 17 quick tips to make it happen

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* Have the date a walking distance away from your house. Great logistics trumps a unique date idea.
* Make sure she hasn’t arranged plans later on. You don’t want to rush things. That’s why evening dates tend to be better.
* For the love of god, don’t let her bring a friend.
* Sit next to her, not opposite. This makes physicality so much simpler.
* Have an excuse to go back to yours pre-prepared. Drop it in the conversation early and casually. I like to mention some hilarious stand-up comedy I was watching before I left the house. If that doesn’t hook her attention, mention some Netflix film that sounds amazing or beers in your hotel room. Whatever.
* I like playing pool. You can bend girls over when they have bad technique. You can take on a leadership by teaching them how to play. It’s always good to have something small to take the pressure off the conversation.
* Tease women the same way you’d tease your bros. It stops this ‘men chase, women choose’ frame that plagues dates.
* Be ready for the classic shit tests: “Do you do this to all the girls.” “You just want to fuck me” “I dont have sex on the first date.” ….because they’re coming if the date goes well.
* My dates are so cheap that the ‘who pays’ debate doesn’t affect the ultimate outcome.
* Always hold hands after leaving the venue. Present your hand and say “here, hold this”.
* I rarely kiss before getting to the bedroom. It kills the sexual tension.
* Most women need to feel comfortable just as much as they need to feel horny.
* With that in mind…Don’t pounce on her as soon she’s in your bedroom. Give her time to get comfortable with her new surroundings.
* Get her to show you their favourite music on YouTube. That’ll do a lot to build her comfort levels. It’s particularly funny if she’s overseas, because her music will probably be crap.
* Show her your favourite music afterwards. Something to set the mood. Don’t be overly cheesy. I actually show her Avicii’s music videos because they’re all about being adventurous and spontaneous.
* Always make it clear you can stop at any time. I’m overly cautious about this. Like I said, comfort is the most important thing for her.
* Have condoms nearby. Having to dig around can be a mood killer.
* Finally, a mindset hack. If she’s coming out on a date, she likes you. She wants you to be cool and pull her in a smoothy wa where she doesn’t feel like a slut. Do that and you’re onto a winner. Happy dating 😉

***I’ve launched a Telegram group for men who want to be incredible with women. Hundreds of men sharing their success stories and getting feedback on their sticking points. A real brotherhood. If you’d like to join the Telegram group, drop me a private message with your Telegram username***

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It’s kinda tough to talk to someone that doesn’t have the same energy as me or atleast try to match it

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Aproaching

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Its easy when you know someone or have something to talk about, but…

How would i do it in the club with a random girl?

On a street -||-?
(Dont know her or anything about her)
Im 18

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Stabbed Through The Heart #literally Or A Girl Broke My Heart 17 Years Ago And It Hasn’t Been Right Since

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Stabbed Through The Heart #literally Or A Girl Broke My Heart 17 Years Ago And It Hasn’t Been Right Since

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I am blogging my road to beating approach anxiety

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[tosocialfreedom.wordpress.com](https://tosocialfreedom.wordpress.com)
Although at summer I managed to do my first direct approaches then a job and housing search
made me take a pause and now I am building myself back up again. I am at day 243.

Before I focused on learning game day in and out but now I also have a job so thus my experience will be more relatable to more guys here. Hope you get inspiration out of it.

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