Most guys are typically super cringey when it comes to sexting women. Or even sexualizing interactions. So here are some important tips when it comes to sexting:
**Tip #1 – Use Proper Grammar & Spelling!**
Sexting is far more effective with proper grammar and correct spelling…
**Tip #2 – Be Descriptive!**
Write a story as if you copied a piece from an erotica…
**Tip #3 – Calibrate**
A bit of awareness goes a long way.
**Tip #4 – Timing!**
Don’t take too long to reply!
**Tip #5 – Don’t use the word “Rape”**
The use of “rape” in sexting shouldn’t be used. It never works. Leave “rape” and “kidnap”, etc. out
**Tip #6 – Use Your Voice!**
You can really use voice messages to your advantage.
**Tip #7: Sext When You’re Free!**
Sext her when you’re free to meet!
**Full article with screen shots of examples here:**
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I went out today rocking a punk rock type look. I never dressed like this and thought I’d give it a try. I improved my confidence so much to the point where I didn’t care what people thought of me. The first store I went into was Costco. I locked eyes with about 5 girls. After that I went over to Safeway and made eye-contact with about 3 more girls. The cashier started flirting with me and sending me IOIs and I started to flirt back and talk to her. I still have problems pulling though. I can do it in a social circle but it’s hard when I’m out and about doing my thing. You can dress nice but end the end it all comes down to if you can approach or not. Most of the girls where either Asian or Latina. I could never get Asian girls to look at me even if I tried. Latina’s would but not Asian. I’m started to figure this all out finally. It all comes together in the end. I practiced eye contact, body language, vocal tonality, approaching, touching, and now style which plays a huge part.
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I just really want a camera man to film me doing infield for my youtube channel
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So I (28 M) went out with (29F) (met on bumble) around 50 days back. I am a lawyer and work in the capital of our state. She’s from my home town which is around 200 miles away. I met her while I was visiting my parents. She was very eager to meet me before I left town so we went on our date for the first time within days after meeting on bumble. We had great conversation for around 3 hrs at the cafe on our bfirst date .She seemed very delighted by our date and even offered to stay longer, but I had to leave. Then next day I left the town and came to my place of work.
Even though I told her I don’t have a time line for my return she kept texting me long-ass messages every other day and we sometimes texted for hours. We also had a couple of telephone conversations that she seemed to enjoy a lot. This went on for a month. Then suddenly she stopped all contact for 10 days (I didn’t contact her either). Then she texted my about how handsome I looked in my new profile picture on social media. I thanked her and didn’t stretch the conversation because I read on r/seduction that texting should be avoided.
A week later I texted her around afternoon to ask about how she was doing and since we haven’t spoken in a while (15days) maybe we should talk on the phone. She said although she doesn’t have anything to do that day but she”ll let me know when she is free to talk in a couple of hours after planning her day.
Surprisingly she didn’t text back until the next night to apologise and tell me that she didn’t text because something came up.
I maintained frame and told her it’s cool. Then she asked me if she can call me that day. I said sure after 6pm. (She didn’t call).
Then she texted me the next day in the afternoon to ask me if she can call me that day. I said “sure” again but after 6pm. She called me and spoke for 2 mins and told me her cousin was visiting her and asked me if she could call me around 8pm . I told her fine. (She didn’t call)
She texted me around 9pm to ask me if she could call me, I replied that she told me she eats dinner around 9:15 pm and we were really close to that time so maybe she should call me another time.
She tried to draw me into texting but I maintained frame and replied to her questions in short answers. She asked me if something was wrong because my replies to her texts were concise. I said no. Not at all. She asked me if I was agitated with her. I said not really and asked her why she thought that. (She didn’t reply) Then she told me she was going to get dinner & would talk to me later. I said sure.
Now it’s been 6 days since we last spoke. She was supposed to call me but that never materialised.
Now I can’t seem to figure out what to do to get her interest back to where it was a month ago.
Although I am dating other women but this women and I had a connection that I don’t have with others. I feel like I have contracted Oneitis.
But I have not contacted her myself. She has actually complained in the past that I never text her . I complied and texted her 3-4 times. But she was the one who initiated conversation.
What should be my move here? Should I let her go since we don’t live in the same city.
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If so, tell me about your situation.
Hey guys. I’m looking for advice/strategies on how to seduce someone you’ve been with for a while.
I’m 26 and my girlfriend is 25. We’ve been together for 3 years and we’re doing fine. The sex is good, but predictable and sorta vanilla. I’d like to spice things up, make her want me the way she did when we first started hooking up. Ya know, get her excited about being naked together instead of just fucking to get each other off.
It’s like we’re past the point of trying to impress each other in the bedroom, which I know happens in relationships. I don’t want sex to be a routine thing. What can I do as her BF to make things more exciting?
Any and all suggestions are welcome and appreciated
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I’m 21, I’ve been single my whole life, and university isn’t going to last forever. I’m afraid of wasting the best chance I’ll ever get to meet girls and I don’t know what to do.
I’ve tried the libraries and cafes on campus, but I don’t think going to cafes and libraries with the sole intent of meeting girls is the best plan. It just isn’t something I can do for very long before having to go somewhere else. There has to be a better way/place I haven’t figured out yet. It’s hard to maintain a lasting conversation with a girl in a coffee shop while waiting in line to place an order. Sometimes I’m lucky enough to say something witty, they’ll laugh and they’ll walk away after getting their order.
It’s rare that I spot a cute girl next to an empty spot at the library and even when I do, I have only have a small window of time to talk to them because they’re usually focused on doing their work. Only a couple of times was I able to really talk to these girls and I go to the library pretty often. Being the idiot that I am, I couldn’t bring myself to ask for their numbers. That’s something I’ll do next time, but I’ll never know when next time is.
I’ve tried in class, but it’s hard to get a conversation out of anyone in just the couple of minutes you get before and/or after class. I’ve gotten a few numbers by just asking without really getting to talk first, but they clearly weren’t interested in me since they all declined to hangout or ignored me. No problem with that, rejection is normal, but my classes are pretty small so the opportunities are limited. It’s a similar situation to coffee shops and libraries.
I don’t have any friends who are girls. If I did, that would probably be helpful, but it’s hard to make friends with girls without coming across like you’re trying to date them anyway. I’m not seriously involved in any clubs (I’ve been trying to though) and the ones I sometimes go rarely have any girls. I feel like I don’t have many opportunities to talk to girls in my daily life, but maybe they’re there and I just need someone to point out these opportunities for me.
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