[FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.

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This is just a little post to share a few things I’ve learned in the last month.

Girl 1) tinder date. The mindset I had going into it was “get the sex”. I just wanted the validation. And while she was nice and fun and, to be frank, obviously a bit slutty, it took me until we were both butt naked at her place to realise I was just not attracted to her. She looked alright with clothes on, and had a nice smile and she was kinda forward which turned me on, but once we got down to business, I couldn’t get it up. She was just not even slightly my type. Did the whole “it’s not you it’s me” routine, did my best to get her off (she can only get off with toys, tut tut) and left.

Lesson: not worth lowering your standards for sex. You think it’ll give you a confidence boost, but it might just do the opposite.

Girl 2) Someone I met at a bar. I found her ID then recognised her from it and gave it to her. Easy open, and I’m happy to say I didn’t waste it. Got the number. Took it “slow” for the first time (I have a streak of fucking on the day I’ve met a girl) (out of necessity, she had work in the morning) so I managed to set up a good third date with perfect logistics. Gotta say, the build up to that date, where we both knew what was gonna happen after, was fucking exciting. Didn’t think of anything else sexually for the whole week. We had a good date, good sex in a hotel room and… I’ve pretty much lost all interest in her. I’m not sure if I’m just an asshole or not, but I barely brought myself to text her a few days after. I guess it’s a case of being blinded by my attraction for her that I didn’t realise how boring I found her company. In the following week, I’ve found that getting a satisfying ONS has not done anything to improve my mood or better me as a person. Not that I consciously thought it would.

Lesson: sex won’t solve your problems, and if you feel like it will when going in, you’ll just feel shit afterwards. Also learned once again that’s it’s fucking hard to say no to “you don’t need a condom I’m on the pill”. Sigh.

The big positive from this experience is that I seem to have lost a lot of the “MUST GET SEX” drive that was pushing me into pursuing girls below my own standards. I feel less desperate and less rushed to be having lots of sex, at the expense of logic.

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what does it feel like to kiss someone with lipstick?

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hopefully i post this on the right place.

as the title stated: have you ever kiss someone with heavy lip products (matte lipstick, layer of lip glosses, etc)?

curious on how it feels like

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Social Media Impact on PuA

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Out of curiosity has there been any books written to discuss the impact of social media and seduction ?

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Mid 40’s – Need advice going to bars solo

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Hello friends! First of all let me start by saying I have read some incredible advice in this sub about going to bars solo – thank you all so much for sharing!

I’m travelling for work soon and will be in a small city on Friday and Saturday nights. I’m planning to go to bars solo for the first time in many years (I’m 44) and would appreciate advice for someone my age.

I’ve got no issues talking to strangers in bars, however, my biggest concern is that the upmarket bars I’m planning to visit typically have a mixed crowd and I don’t want to approach 20 or 30-something woman as part of my warm up and come across as that creepy old guy. For the record, I’m ok looking and have an athletic build, but most people would still guess my age to be early 40’s. I do however have a strategy that I’d appreciate some feedback on…

I was thinking of approaching groups of woman aged under 35 and simply say hi and mention that I’m single and from out of town and was wondering if this would be a good bar to meet older woman. I think that would be a reasonable way to start as it will help me get warmed up so to speak. I am also planning to use the same intro line when I speak to woman who are in my target age range (35 – 50) – purely for the comedy value and it could also be a good icebreaker!

Does that sound like a decent plan to start with? Any other suggestions would be most welcome!

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LOOKING FOR WINGMANS IN ANKARA TURKEY

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Hey guys, I’m in Turkey and looking for wingmans to hangout in Tunus, Kizilay or Bahceli. If you are interested text me back.

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How to Never Run Out of Things to SAY in a Conversation

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How to Never Run Out of Things to SAY in a Conversation


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