Hi guys! New here!
So yesterday after a night out, I came across a mind bugging thing.
When you enter a venue especially a crowded one like a dancing bar or a club, you find yourself a spot.
Open a nearby set lets the conversation goes.
But when you’ve reached end of conv, how can you move from one set to another? Or just move into the venue without it being awkward?
Not by going to buy a drink or going outside to smoke also.
Have you ever dated a girl that was insecure and needy, before you even started dating? (Constantly wanting to know where you stand,shit testing..all while being hard to get) Or should I avoid that all together?
I  been talking to this girl  for a while , she hit me up out the blue saying that we should link up (I said I wasnt free that day but we should set something up , so I asked her when would she be free the following week. She said she’ll let me know once she get’s her schedule for work (understandable)… Every now and then I would send a ping text .. “Hope you have a great day” when all of a sudden she started texting me stuff on the daily like (I like you,I can’t stop thinking about you , I feel like you aren’t being honest with me, I want to know where you stand with me) like LONG PARAGRAPHS ..I’M TALKING LIKE 300 word essays , 5-7 texts at a time. Everytime I would reply briefly and keep it cool , she’d calm down. And the next day it would be the same thing again (I feel so confused , how do you fee about me? I don’t play games I win them,and some more BS)
It felt like we were in a relationship already , without even meeting or going on a date yet (well in her mind atleast) . Expecting constant texts from me , and taking so long to get back to me about her schedule for AN actual date. Seemed kind of weird to me, am I bugging ?
Basically the title. Quoting u/theministryofawesome on [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/49tsoy/fr_date_went_well_ended_up_bad_in_the_end/) :
>As I got to know her a bit i dropped more into my raw self, which is a bit crazy and erratic (it’s just high energy, light, joking, and entirely unserious and friendly – a bit of a deviation from the stern stoic dominant type that usually come across when i’m not “just being friends” with people). I guess the way i hold myself isn’t very good, at least not very “alpha” if you do it. Either way, I was having fun and so was she.
In the end he didn’t manage to f-close due to that and some other stuffs he reported (give it a read, its a great FR).
I find that following the techniques work as intended but can also be tiresome because you are constantly doing stuffs that might be out of your “own self”.
Sorry if I am breaking any rules. It’s my first time posting here.
Ever been that guy that feels confident, calm, and fun out there, but can’t finish? Insert me in this story.
Don’t get me wrong…I think I had a good 2018 with women, and that’s not just as far as having fun dates. I got one step better with women in the club…most of my interactions happened while dancing, but hey, I’ll take it where I can. Had two very close opportunities that could have ended in getting laid, but if you had to ask me why, I’d say I was too clingy with the first girl and the other probably just…forgot about me the next day even though I got her number.
Since then, just been trying to mix things up. A nicer haircut, not carpooling with my friends, and keeping that no-pressure mentality when I’m out there. If you’ve got some more advice for me, throw it my way!