How to open in bars


So I haven’t really bar gamed in a while, but was invited to go with a friend of mine to see some of his fellow musicians perform at a bar in Miami. I’ve done so much direct daygame, but I know doing the, hey I know this is random but, thing won’t really work in a bar?

My plan is just to be super present and have a good time. But if a girl catches my eye, how should I approach? I’m thinking of just looking at her until we lock eyes and just wait for an AI approach invitation, a smile or something, then just go and introduce myself.

Any advice?


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6 thoughts on “How to open in bars”

  1. You can honestly open with anything. Keep it low pressure, you don’t need to show intent like most guys do, intent is always shown through actions not words. Keep her interested, easiest way is to just be like no other guy at the bar, be so fucking cocky and funny that she has no option but to talk to you because compared to you every other guy is a fucking weirdo.

    Think about your average guy’s game, he goes up, spouting some crap that she’s heard a million times and he’s absolutely terrified of her beauty. I always ask myself what could I do that would be so fucking wild she’d remember this interaction for months and I do that.

    My weirdest opener was going up to a couple 9’s with a where’s wally book saying, “First one to find him gets a shot”. I guarantee to this day, they’ve not had as much fun as that from a guy opening them.

  2. UPDATE: went really well. I opened a single at the bar. We talked, danced, bounced her to another venue, fingered her. Was going to close but I made the first and last mistake of going in my car while she took an Uber. She texted that she had changed her mind. Should have left my car and taken the Uber with her. But hey, I’m proud of my progress. ) I realize opening wasn’t really that hard.

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