How do I condition girls to be friends with benefits?


Hi guys, I’m on mobile so forgive any mistakes (also have no idea on how to view a sidebar on my cell).

So recently I’ve been pulling a ton of women and have no problem escalating kino, keeping the conversation fun and flirty and even getting to a sexual level but almost every girl wants to date me and doesn’t want anything casual (even after we’ve had casual sex already).

I’m always upfront about what I’m looking for from the beginning as I don’t want to lead anyone in or hurt anybody but I feel like I’m running into this wall over and over again.

Any advice on how I condition the girls to keeping things casual or any videos I can check out?

Thanks for the help, love you guys, let’s do this!


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2 thoughts on “How do I condition girls to be friends with benefits?”

  1. You’re upfront about it and they still want a relationship. You can continue trying to sleep with them, and either 1) that’s the definition of a fwb 2) they start to say no/ not talk to you.

    There isn’t something new you’re going to find with your strategy. I do think you should try using different justifications when you’re explaining your intentions to keep things going with said girls.

    Remove the “relationship compatibility” component. I am currently seeing a few girls who know they’re in a casual relationship. And it stays casual Because I’m leaving in a few months – they don’t see me as an option for a long term relationship, they see me as a fun option for now.

    How long are you trying to keep things casual, and at what point do you start to call it a relationship?

  2. I think you are going after the wrong girls. You are finding the ones who seem ready for something serious, whereas you need to go after the more promiscuous ones. Or at least ones not ready for the serious thing.

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